I am shy at first but really an out going person. I absolutely love my life. A few things... 1. I'm not a little person. I've lost 50 pounds and am still losing but I will never be skinny. Big girls are not for everyone and I understand you can't help who you're attracted to. 2. I don't want children. I have no trouble being with someone who has kids, but I do not wish to have any of my own. Because of this I find I'm usually attracted to men older than me. 3. If you do not have a job, car, or pictures, I will not respond to you. I am not looking to take care of anyone just like I am not looking for anyone to take care of me. :)