Hi there... I am not that easy to please, I am stubborn, I do not like being told what to do, I can not abide stupid people. I am first and foremost a lady and expect to be treated as one. I wear makeup,heels and feminine clothes. I am a big/cuddly girl. Dating sites are a battleground where a person has to fight through hundreds of idiots with fake profiles before finding a diamond in the rough…and then being too afraid to reach out to them. I have 2 young children and a teenager at home plus a moody cat. I'm a decent cook my house is clean but not always tidy. I drive and have a motorbike licence although I haven't been on a bike for around 15 years. I'm a hopeful romantic, a daydreamer. ... I believe in love at first sight. ... I believe everyone has more than one soulmate in a lifetime. ... I believe fate or destiny plays a role life. My best feature is my eyes followed by my lips. Things I would like to do in the future... I want to ride mustangs in Texas, I want to visit Seoul and Pyongyang.