well, the reason i'm here is to find people to get to know and take it from there, the reason i'm looking for friends is that i have recently(03/09) gotten out of a relationship where i loved and intended to marry the girl and it's kinda left me with mainly just guy friends and i'm usually ending up as the third or fifth wheel (not that fun). So, honestly I'm looking mainly to meet somebody who's fun, attractive and doesnt mind hanging out and walking around, someone that is also concentrating on her thier future and may not have time for a relationship but is willing to be friends and go from there. I'm not saying that if the attraction grows between us that i wouldnt be open to something serious, but these are just my immediate intentions. I am very respectful of women, and usually befriend them without ever moving to a more romantic/intimate relationship, so here I am, and if you're looking for this or something that starts with freindship as well please feel free to say hello =) As far as I go, i'm the kinda guy that laughs too much, and smiles all the time... I like to think i'm a decent looking guy and I just enjoy life. i've got my priorities in order and have a career path that i'm going to school for, but just so you know I took this semester off. I'm currently on leave from work until a legal matter is resolved so money is a bit tight(not used to this by the way), but I love to hang out and talk, maybe grab a drink or drive somewhere cool... i'm the kind of guy that likes to get to know people, i'm not shallow or materialistic but i'd be lying if I said looks werent important... so i'm open to every race, and all types of people, i'm honest but i dont like being brutally honest, cuz yeah... that can hurt. so... hmmm... oh ya, i live with my two friends i've known longer than anyone else, one since i was 2 and the other since 1995, they're like brothers and we have a nice house out in norwalk with a pool table and a smoking room and all that stuff... so yeah, if you're a cool person and have a good head on ur shoulders feel free to say hello, i'd love to hear from you.