Hi..I'm not sure if I'd say I’m here to find 'the ultimate love', which's to say I don't think 'love' per se can be found so easily, or, we wouldn't have been here, or the similar sites in the 1st place, would we? if love can be so easily located and possessed. How to stand out in a crowd like this on a dating site? I don't have the strategies here, except to say, I don't try to stand out, cuz I can't. It's simply impossible. The only thing I can, perhaps, rely on, is the cosmic force to work something out for me, and for another soul, hopfully. If you so choose to write to me, I sincerely hope that you’re genuinely the person who you say you are, and you mean what you say. Please, no offense intended here, as you know, the internet scams are just overwhelming nowadays (sigh~). I can only hope you're truly the person in your profile and whom I'd be corresponding with. As for me, for the record, I’m the person in my profile, who’s writing to you with my own words. That, you can rest assure of. All and all, I wish you all well. And do, somehow, somewhere, find the soul mate, the loving person you desire...and we all, dream of finding, in this short lifespan, to love, and be loved to the fullest extent.