I am first of all a true follower of Jesus Christ. I do not like to use the word "Christian" as in today's connotation it means almost anything and not the true meaning that I convey. I follow Christ's teachings and try to put Him first in my life. I have a personal relationship with Jesus. It is not about religion, but a relationship with Him. I follow the Bible which I believe to be the inspired Word of God from beginning to end. I do not believe in sexual relations outside of marriage. Sad that it has to be said these days, but I try to follow the Bible literally, and it is my firm belief that the gift of sex between a man and woman is only for marriage. I am not a smoker and I do not drink alcohol, although the Bible doesn't forbid it's use, only the abuse of it. I would prefer a man who doesn't drink, but will leave that up to his convictions between himself and God. I definitely do NOT want a smoker.