We don't meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason. You know personally I believe there are three types of honest people in this world, small children, true lovers and drunken people. Life and love is neither a bed of roses nor a carpet of thorns, it's just what you make of it, they work together because time decides who you meet in life, and your heart decides who you want in your life, as everyone has a right to be happy and happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, it’s as a butterfly which, when pursued is always beyond our grasp, but if you sit down quietly may alight upon you. Finding someone that you love is like finding the last piece of the puzzle, you need it to make your life complete and believe me you can get advice from family and friends but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it. The beauty of love is, you can fall into it with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time. It took me so long to convince myself to try dating again after the sudden demise of my husband but I understand its life and in living it, we have to honor our memories and face situations as they appear because everything happens for a reason. I have been a widow for a while now and I don’t want to rush into anything that will hurt in the end. I’ve been blessed to have lived a peaceful and a very comfortable life but it's the small, thoughtful things that mean the most to me. Like holding my hand unexpectedly, kissing my cheek for no reason, pulling me close to you during a movie, or just sending me a sweet text to start my day off right, Sometimes it’s not the person you miss, but the feelings you had when you were with them. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt within the heart and an example of such beauty is TRUE LOVE, as you go through life you realize there is so much we can never understand especially when you discover the thin line between love, like, life and living it. I am caring, creative, honest, easy going, interesting, bold, brave, optimistic, patient and above all loving but we've all got flaws though, these flaws forms a part of who we are, no one is perfect, we are all work in progress, seeds growing into flowers, like a train picking up speed every day. I am looking forward to meet my gentleman, my soul mate., someone who is caring, optimistic, loving and above all matured.