Hi...Hello dear, There is only one form of intimacy that does not inhibit the development of personality and does not cause contradictions and energy losses - this is mature love; by this term I mean the complete closeness between two people, each of whom retains complete independence and, in a sense, separation. Love truly does not cause conflict and does not lead to loss of energy, because it combines two deep human needs: in intimacy and in independence". I think in my age I have everything already. But I am still searching true love.