I am newly single after twenty six years. I just want to go dancing, do activities that don't include children and have fun. That does not mean I want a casual encounter. I DO NOT. I would just like a few friends over the age of thirty and below fifty. I am tired of just being mom. At least once a month I'd like to just be me. I'm sorry if this sounds shallow, but if you are obese, bald, have lots of facial hair or think you're God's gift I don't find that attractive in someone I'd want to date.