I am a genuine and authentic man (yes, they do exist) looking for a real connection, not a hook up or meaningless intimate encounter. I am a father to two amazing daughters who are both in college, and I have an affinity for animals, especially dogs. Those who know me would describe me as honest, loyal, confident, passionate, loving, and spiritually grounded. I believe life is to be enjoyed in spite of the crazy world we live in. For me, spiritual fitness and self care is paramount to well-being, and I believe happiness is a choice. I choose joy and prefer to be around those who share this sentiment! Music is a big part of my life as is cooking and good food although I do not consider myself a "foodie". Nature is my sanctuary, and I enjoy the outdoors and coastal adventures. I also enjoy competitive sports, mountain biking, and kayaking. I'm trying to find a balance between physical outlets, creative expression, social engagement, and finding the right person to have an intimate connection with. My personal preference is monogomy, but that's just me - no judgement on those with a different perspective. Just be honest! A great sense of humor is as important to me as emotional intelligence. If you need to look up what emotional intelligence means, I'm probably am not a good fit for you. P.S. I am not interested in connections outside of Sonoma County, CA and will not respond.