!!!!!!!!!!!UPDATED 4-13-09!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not looking for Mr. Right... or Mr. Right Now... I'd probably settle for Mr. Right better than I would Mr. Right Now because I am definitely not THAT kind of girl. I am looking for that guy who, once we get to know each other, can withstand my flaws and craziness and make me try my hardest to be a better person. I am a freshman and part-time student at the University of Cincinnati. I don't really have a type and I am very hard to impress because I am normally quite cold or a "b!tch" to most guys who just randomly approach me in person and online. Don't let that scare you away from getting to know me but just beware I am use to over-thinking things and that means I am very ytical of all men. What it boils down to... is that... I'm looking to connect... and find that guy who gives me butterflies toward the beginning of the relationship as well as all through out it. I've connected with men like this very few times which isn't surprising seeing as how I'm only 18 but age doesn't matter to me (my spirit is much older) and I've always seemed to get hurt by those I connect with. Just recently I actually met someone on this site and it just didn't work out, I ended up getting hurt a little, so now I am even more skeptical of those who approach me. And I was weary of scaring guys away but in the last relationship it kind of... became an issue. I'm looking for someone to spend my future with. It sounds like I'm wanting to rush into something but I'm not! I just have this thing where my only goal in my life is to have a kid. I would love a little boy to just... shower with never ending affection like my parents never gave me. I can do it right. I don't mean I want that now but I do want it within the next 5 years. Most people see that as sacrificing a career or lifestyle but... all I want in life is a kid. I do want to have a simple life with minimal troubles such as finances and what not but I'd rather be a lively young parent than be 50 when my kid graduates from high school. I know this just made my profile much much longer but this is what I want and true I can't see the future but I can know whether or not someone is a person who I could see having children with. I reserve to the right to make that decision. So if you don't want kids. Don't waste my time. I know that sounds harsh but I don't want to fall for someone and spend a lot of time with them and then us not want the same things so we both get hurt and waste a lot of time. As you can tell I'm very wordy and I regard intellectuality very highly so please take that extra time to type "you" instead of "u" if you decide to give me a message and... we'll see what happens. [[I also have instant messengers AIM, Yahoo, and MSN if you ever want to stray from Mingle (msn is my personal choice)]]