i have re written this, so that it is simple and to the point. i think that is important. i am on these sites in hopes of finding someone local to me, to have a relationship. i am a regular type of guy. not fancy. not looking for someone that wants to go to fancy resturants or spend the night on the town. but rather someone that wants to do day to day things, and hopefully share interests. i am also not looking for someone that wants to live with me. an ideal person is someone independant, with their own life and interests, that is looking to share, with a guy that is the same. i am physicaly and sexually active. i like to travel to warm places in the winter. in the warm months, i like to work around the house. i like to cook, and try to eat healthy, i do like to drink my wine. if this sounds interesting, then say hello. i will not ask for, or give personal infornmation, until we do check each other out. be web safe, please. if you don't want to make the effort, then don't waste our time. time is of the essence. Bob