Getting ghosted usually isn’t about you being unlikable, it’s about the conversation losing momentum too soon. The good news: small, intentional shifts in how you message can keep a match engaged long enough to move from chat to a real date. Why Do Dating App Conversations Die? Before fixing the problem, it helps to understand why it happens. Most ghosting comes down to one of four reasons: The conversation feels like a job interview (too many questions, not enough warmth) …