If you feel like dating today is more exhausting than exciting, you are not imagining it. Many people describe modern dating as confusing, emotionally draining, and even discouraging, especially in the age of online dating apps and endless swiping. Despite having more ways to meet people than ever before, finding a meaningful connection can feel surprisingly difficult. Psychologists, relationship researchers, and neuroscientists have been studying this exact question for years. Their findings point to a combination of choice overload, brain …