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Tue 03/25/08 03:54 AM





perfection is a myth, compromise is the key!


compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . .
true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first.


by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be
this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol


my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be

we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time.

love it not thought about .. . it is felt

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Tue 03/25/08 03:43 AM



perfection is a myth, compromise is the key!


compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . .
true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first.


by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be

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Tue 03/25/08 03:41 AM

well yea but we still do dream about the "one"


nope . . . dream about you and what you want and have to share, dream about how you will feel safe . . .but her . . let her be, let her be who she is without the ideas you have about what she will be . .. and let her be more because she will be .. .

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Tue 03/25/08 03:41 AM

well yea but we still do dream about the "one"


nope . . . dream about you and what you want and have to share, dream about how you will feel safe . . .but her . . let her be, let her be who she is without the ideas you have about what she will be . .. and let her be more because she will be .. .

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Tue 03/25/08 03:33 AM

perfection is a myth, compromise is the key!


compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . .

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Tue 03/25/08 03:30 AM

yes perfect for "us" in each way, but is it really gonna be perfect?

the perfection is in what you are together . . . the perfection is in the perception . . .

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Tue 03/25/08 03:22 AM

devil devil devil each and everyone who reads this post....good night......i'm sure i will wake up screaming, having conversed with any of you.....you're gonna burn in.........devil devil devil devildevil devil devil devil devil devil devil


REALLY?

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Tue 03/25/08 03:21 AM





for a committed relationship in your life?


what about you peccy??
I'm not real sure, have to be a real special girl to make me want to commit again.drinker drinker


tell us about her ... what is she like?
lol.well she lights up a room when she walks in, she has a smile that would make the sun jealous, she has a quirky yet wonderful sense of humor, intelligent, has her own mind, just a little cocky, and lost evidently.


i cannot wait for you to love all the parts of her you cannot even think of or imagine . . .

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Tue 03/25/08 03:15 AM



for a committed relationship in your life?


what about you peccy??
I'm not real sure, have to be a real special girl to make me want to commit again.drinker drinker


tell us about her ... what is she like?

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Tue 03/25/08 03:10 AM




i would like to make a slight change to my answer and say that i THINK i am so very very ready . . . .
big change there cha


it is just that we are only human and sometimes there is a plan beyond our thoughts and deciding them limits them and i know i can make a commitment but i only think i might be ready.
food for thought.


are you hungry? and is it affecting your ability to answer whether you are ready or not???

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Tue 03/25/08 03:05 AM


i would like to make a slight change to my answer and say that i THINK i am so very very ready . . . .
big change there cha


it is just that we are only human and sometimes there is a plan beyond our thoughts and deciding them limits them and i know i can make a commitment but i only think i might be ready.

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Tue 03/25/08 03:00 AM

for a committed relationship in your life?


what about you peccy??

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Tue 03/25/08 02:58 AM
i would like to make a slight change to my answer and say that i THINK i am so very very ready . . . .

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Tue 03/25/08 02:55 AM
so very very ready

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Tue 03/25/08 02:49 AM

I could hit in high school, but didn't make the college baseball team.. so I stuck to academics.

So I guess the "dream job" would be playing in the majors. Pretty much since I was 6, that's all I ever wanted to do...


damn cute

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Tue 03/25/08 02:43 AM

:wink: mostly just looking upon your nudity....could do it all day long, along with every other guy on this spinning orb........

they took some fotos off and i had to fix another . . . thank you but ... really, not such a good secret job and it appears you are already doing it which does not coincide with the question.

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Tue 03/25/08 02:41 AM
mine is a tattoo artist by the way

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Tue 03/25/08 02:35 AM
occupation . . . you will never do it, for whatever reason, but it would be what?

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Tue 03/25/08 02:29 AM
my secret sauce . . .

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Tue 03/25/08 02:25 AM
total frickin bad pans . . . so bad for you . .. don't use them