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Someone said the bible "Do not spare the Rod! That the rod may or may not be the Word "Rod" after all but Discipline with a strictness in a voice..
Here is some information about a Virgo Horoscope that Explains the Definition of what A rod may or may not be! from Latin virgatus, 'made of twigs', from virgo, 'twig, switch, rod', which is of uncertain origin. It stands perhaps for *wiz-ga, from Indo-European base *weis-, 'to turn, twist', whence also Old English weoxian, 'to wipe'". Indo-European base *weis-, gives as derivatives: whisk, from Old English weoxian, 'to wipe', 'quick stroke, sweeping movement'. I have seen this in other Dictionary words. # Birch rod, made out of twigs from birch or other trees for corporal punishment # Switch (rod), a piece of wood as used as a staff or for corporal punishment, or a bundle of such switches Measuring rod, a kind of ruler Rod (geometry), a straight and slender stick; a wand; a cylinder; hence, any slender bar this is a article i had found! on the internet after reading the posts thought you all would find it interesting.... give us something to talk about, think about and determine is the Rod! what God said it was or gave the impression... and if so... did God know that it would turn into corporal punishment as i have hurd on this site against a child... {For the ones that parents did not understand or was so frustrated in society that they listened to a cultural that was only about gaining control over the child to teach them "I am the boss"! I will say this! Parents are learning like anyone else, they listen to there parents, they do what others tell them to do, I am not justify for them. But when we have no control over are own self's how can we have control over are children! I am sorry and Time dose heal a wound! But memories never leave the soul. I was ones told. YOU can get rid of the past by doing one thing letting it go! But to get rid of the Memories you must work hard to forget them or they will come back and haunt you at another time! Just let them go for today is a new day and be happy you made it this far!... the most strongest and weakest people everyone knows is the child who struggled during life, does it make us strong or weak? it all depends... if the parent broke the SPRITE in the child or not! Once the spirit is broken there is no fixing! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Spare the rod, spoil the child "I wish that all fathers of households stand forth and practice their role. They will use the rod and not permit their children to go astray. Firmness is needed in your world that is filled with laxity, permissiveness, and degradation. "Your children have been misled by many who shall answer to the Father. As teachers they have failed in their role. Therefore, as parents you must succeed in yours." - St. Joseph, March 18, 1973 ----------------------------------------------------------------- As the Bible tells us: "He who spareth the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes" (Proverbs 13:24) and "Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14) So lets say as the man said! about the 10yr old boy who raped it is a excellent example why this was implicated in the first place. Lets say this child, as a infant, when he called out to his mother she did not come to him! So the moment he cried she would come unglued and yell and scream at him! Lets say that he is not 2 yrs of age and the child gets into things, and she is always taking her hand and spanking the child trying to teach him not to get into mommy's or daddy things, by the time the child is 3yrs old, fully talking, now the child has learned to manipulation there words... Children words can be a make or break on a parent for they do not understand children hear and repeat but get smacked and beaten for saying what daddy said 2 weeks ago not knowing time in space... or the gossip a mother did on the phone has come back to haunt her when her friends are over and the child repeats what mommy said about Susan yesterday. Children do not understand Words.. only play with how they sound in there voice. This child just got there butts spanked not once but twice because the child only said what the parents said. So lets say the little boy would repeat that daddy was cheating and mommy was having a a fair.. oppps.. the little boy learned that he gets in trouble for sex. at 3 yrs of age. now we are going to raise this child.. The child is now 5 yrs old, learning about friends, and here is were it all goes wrong... in Kindergarten the child learns what Tom and mark and Paul and Kathy did yesterday go home and try everything but again the 5yr old boy is laughed at for his parents think it is funny, and cute.... but the child has just learned that what there friends do make there PARENTS HAPPY... We just taught are child to FOLLOW OTHER CHILDREN.... So the 10yr old child who FOLLOWED AND HELPED the other kids Rape a young girl was taught to follow the crowed! at 5 yrs old. We did not teach him INDIVIDUALITY. This is why I do not like Day cares at a early age because from the time the child is born at the age of 8 weeks old the infant is put in a class room of 6 to 8 children, by the time the child is a toddler they have learned to follow everyone else, to go along with, to do the same thing. and by the time school age starts there is no different for thy all went to the same childcare center, they all do the same thing every day the same way. it is only when they leave and go home is it different! How to discipline this 10yr old after the Rape! 1. Counseling is very needed! 2. Empathy is was not taught. Do on to others as others do on to you! he dose not know that the child is going to hurt or feel anything for he has never felt the pain. This needs to be taught and you can do it constructively. Watching a glass fall consequences. is the Key. 3. Confession even though the parents of the child who was raped is furious... the boy needs to see the pain of the family and sit down and talk to them about the pain the suffering he put others though. 4. by putting him in JAIL.. he is now a convect at 10yrs old who will now be taught how to Disobey, listen to other children story's and place this image into his own mind. NOT COOL>>> no Juvenal hall it will destroy him before he is 11 yrs of age. 5. Having him do community work is good, to give back to make remorse to show his ethics and teach him if he dose wrong he has to do right for society. Biggest fault in Mankind. Make right with the Lord and your neighbors or friends, family members.. Make Peace! 6, he is 10yrs old have him write or record his Empty, I am so sorry......... so the little girls can feel that she has been redeemed from the situation that it was not done in vain! but sorrow and remorse. This is what a 10yr old child who raped a little girl should go through... For at 10yrs old he is not a adult but only a child who is learning his Times x tables, learning how to read books, play a saxophone, and learning how to get along with friends with out getting into trouble. Society allows TV that chirrups a mind, we have Cops, who shows young boys how to get away with a crime for they just saw everything the man did wrong next time they are going to be smarter. We show sex and most do not shut this channel off. Kids are smart. we show horror and death to kids who are not emotionally stable to handle it. we most of all show cartoons that are Political and converse and yet the Person dose not consider anything but how to make money or a hit show, using images a child will abuse his parents, teachers, and women!..... When we as United States of America stand together and fight for are children, is the only way this will change.. but if we do not want the responsibility to be better parents then we! will stay the same. While others will suffer as this little girl did. Amen http://www.tldm.org/news6/child.discipline.htm |
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Psychoanalyze Yourself
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1. The person who you are walking in the woods with is the most important to you now.
? My Daughter,Son, Son in law and grandchild 2. The size of the animal is representative of your perception of the size of your problems in your life. ? Bear 3. The severity of the interaction you have with the animal is representative of how you deal with your problems. ? Yogi just stole my picnic basket off the table! 4. The size of your dream home is representative of the size of your ambition to solve your problems. ? 3000 square feet 5. A lack of a fence is indicative of an open personality. People are welcome at all times. The presence of a fence indicates a closed personality. You'd prefer people not drop by unannounced. ? Only Trees and flowers, lots of flowers 6. If your answer did NOT include food, flowers, or people, then you are generally unhappy. ? Fruits and Vegetables and Flowers. Lots of flowers 7. The durability of the material with the cup is made of is representative of the perceived durability of your relationship. ? Coffee cup always over flowing with Coffee 8. What you did with the cup is representative of your attitude. ? Fill it up with Milk Coffee! 9. The size of the body of water is representative of the size of your sexual desire. ? Flowing rivers 10. The way you cross the water is representative to how easy or hard you expect your life to be. ? Motor boat Well that was fun! I enjoyed that to end my night! Rain and Thunder, with lots of hard drops bashing against my sunroof! Good night all we had a blast.... Don't for get to read the Gossip topic......."Desperate Ex-Wife's" Sometimes you just have to be unreal! |
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O you people are just so funny!
If the man was blind? strip poker is out of the question! guess Hide and seek he will win on! better play, Duck Duck duck goose! |
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She thought she would be funny to put up a old picture to see how much GOSSIP would this cause! She went from post to post reading everything and having the time of her life.
What lonesomeness will do for ones soul but I thank the person who made this Topic for it took all the "children in my care out of my mind" and gave me a great great relaxing fun day. Thank you.. sad this had to be my humor for the day! I will go and change my clothes..... To all the women who changed there Pictures, they were Fantastic! Just beautiful as it should be.... Wait until you see the next one! I love to laugh! |
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He lets his dog drink the water out of the sink!
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Good one!
1. How old are you? 47yrs old going on 93 2. How many children do you have? 2 but also a 3rd who is not mine but my childs husband and a 1/2 who is my daughters child. 3. What do you think of me? YOU made a great Topic and fun. 4. What do you think of your last partner? All i can say is "Parkinson's illness" destroyed a soul! 5. Are you a liar? I never lie! not even a fig, not a white or a black that is why I have no friends! or lover! or Frogs. |
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laughter! I need laughter! The personality, A man who can talk about his job, cars, Editorials, YOU name it he can talk about it and make it sounds like honey in someones ears!
I can never get enough talk about tools, or how he put in a new engine in his motorcycle! Dang I would be there next to him helping him! I love grease monkeys.... AWWWW covered in oil.. if it would not kill me i would do it... LOL... A man who can describe a spark plug and yet make it sound so exciting! Who can sit in a sonic parking lot and talk for 3 hrs over a cherry lime aid!.. that is a great man! Well only for me! So simple it is so difficult to figure out! |
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What Irritates women
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It's sad when you spend so much time in a relationship a few years and your kids get to know the person, your friends and family adore them. Then one day out of the blue's for now spoken reasons. They pack all there stuff and walk out the door saying always the same thing!
I'm sorry but I am too selfish and i miss being a bachelor I can't stand the sound of the kids any longer! it's not you it's me Please for give me! Have a nice life and tell your kids Good bye for me! Please! As the kids in the childcare are going nuts because the doors are opening and shutting. At least wait until the kids are gone! |
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Outside your league
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You can't think in terms of "out of your league" You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off! In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover" I guess thats true, but Really pretty women usually have really good looking men talk to them, thus guys like me are always sitting there looking. I remember, in high school, all guys thought the prettist girls in school were already asked to the prom, so they never asked. Sometimes the prettiest girls sat home on prom night! Don't look! Ask!  
Words of wisdom again! My daughter never went to Prom nor did my son, they felt it was to stereo typed! and over priced! The truth is they new I could not afford it! So they stayed home we watched Hastings DVD's but I say the tear in my child's eye. That was enough! and you are right very right... They sit at home day after year alone! Amen |
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Outside your league
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Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially. I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity. 
YOU! have a wonderful message.... A lot of mothers single pay for there children education with out final aid and I can tell you it cost me 27k a year! I work hard.. and so all the other parents men and women who are putting their self or the kids though college, it dose not happen over night i'm going on 7 yrs for my kids all together and have 2 yrs more to go... Maybe one day when I'm 53 I will get the chance to attend college and have my career.. but until then.... We judge from a picture, we believe we know who they are, what there about, and who we think there life is like? and yet we have no clue! |
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Outside your league
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful 
Thank you very much.  I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.
didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it
I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! |
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Outside your league
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there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different. if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth! does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!! that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins. they lose.................they missed the point of life school.... i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatibility are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor.... Beyond words have been spoken today, YOU win the Mingle2 "Best Human award"! Along with melodygirl for "first place" in best Pose for a Picture! Wisdom spoken very well! The richest person I new was the saddest person who died! Opps that was my Father! He worked so hard to have it all had two wife's take it all, in the end he gave his best to only die homeless on the streets in West L.A. (love you daddy)! |
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Outside your league
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Gas station My father! started at this job, became the owner of his carpenter business!
who married a Waitress who later became a clock retailer at swap meets and still dose this at 72yrs old... LOL O but i have a step father who was a Minister, who became a minister, who fell in love with my mother who became a clock retailer at a swap meet and they only work one day a week.. now that is a job! lol So what profession is your Mother and or Father... when they got Married that should tell a story to what you are asking! everyone... confess.....???? |
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Outside your league
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This one is fun! excellent question.
Date: Mechanics, Ministers! Machinist, Roofers, Carpenter, HAVC/R The funny thing is thy are the one that dated a IN-HOME CHILDCARE GIVER! Gee! did they have guts or courage! MY EX-Husband, Machinist/Mechanics/Carpenter/Hvac-r! "WELL HE HATES ME" & I have the kids with college degrees! Ministers/Roofers "HE LIKED BLONDS NOT BRUNETTES" and size dose matter OUCH! Ministers/Mechanics "Parkinson's illness took him away" Enough said! Funny I am the one in the low paying job! but I am the one that Owned the house, and has a stable life along with the kids, and now grandchild! They had the Mind, we both had the skills working side by side, I had the heart and passion... But when you work your self to death your too tired to breath, I did the best I could sharing everyone's time, I guess it was just not enough for man kind! 4am to 7:30pm Kids, career, housework, cooking, college kids. 9pm to 12mid man! Gee was that not enough??? LOl Can't please everyone! Not even yourself... Yep the sun just came out.. YEA>>>>> |
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i see pics on here and
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Another great picture.... Wonderful... Its about the heart in a women.... not the Picture! A picture can not tell the story, or the personality nor can words on a piece of paper. What tells the truth is time spent with them to look into there eyes and hold them in your arms.. only then.... Will you Know the truth... and sex has nothing to do with your picture.... but GOSSIP DOSE..... Smile look around,,,ITS a GREAT DAY!!!!!   
OOOO Um... it is thundering, Raining, Poor down Cats an Dogs and a few Old Fish!.... ???? |
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i see pics on here and
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sometimes i think, how the fokk can he/she not have a gf/bf? whats that all about? 
We have KIDS AT HOME! it's a ice breaker... or a destruction of a relationship???? Gee? Do mom's put there kids before there relationships. YEP!>>>> Opppssss! only 2 yrs more to go.. and I'm Free.... Free... I tell you and God help this world! Purrrrrrrrrrr! Free to a good home! Hmm I have a great home! I know I work hard to keep it! There is always room!..... Carefull what you ask for. I am FREE!!!...  and i miss them.
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i see pics on here and
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I am not coming at you aggressively; I'm just presenting a platform for your question. What does someone's looks have to do with their relationship status? If you view someone as beautiful, good looking, hot, etc, that means they must have a bf/gf? I wonder the same thing as well though. I see a really hot guy who is my type, we have the same ambitions, etc, and I wonder why he is single. To me, it means that person just hasn't found their match!
well i suppose i mean usually all the cute ones i see in everyday life are already snapped up. call me shallow  
That is true for both sexes but the best ones are home with there kids making sure they are well taken care of. These women as for myself.. are working so many hours that there is no time to breath, that is why I am here! Who wants to be with a women that works from 11pm Sunday night to 7:30pm Monday night 7 days a week.... When I start having fun! I will tell you.. but until then I'm The only one that will take in over night kids and help these Parents who can not find anyone to help them.. do i sacrifices a person over a child???? The child just won! I am on the child's side! they sure can't stay home alone.... Not when there only 2weeks old or even 3yrs old!... Kids first, My kids 2nd and My relationship 3rd.. MY LOSS |
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i see pics on here and
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Another great picture.... Wonderful... Its about the heart in a women.... not the Picture! A picture can not tell the story, or the personality nor can words on a piece of paper. What tells the truth is time spent with them to look into there eyes and hold them in your arms.. only then.... Will you Know the truth... and sex has nothing to do with your picture.... but GOSSIP DOSE..... |
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i see pics on here and
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I am not coming at you aggressively; I'm just presenting a platform for your question. What does someone's looks have to do with their relationship status? If you view someone as beautiful, good looking, hot, etc, that means they must have a bf/gf? I wonder the same thing as well though. I see a really hot guy who is my type, we have the same ambitions, etc, and I wonder why he is single. To me, it means that person just hasn't found their match!
1st. Great Picture YOU just won "First Prize" on mingle2. Great shot! Thank you! For all women! |
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i see pics on here and
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sometimes i think, how the fokk can he/she not have a gf/bf? whats that all about?
We have KIDS AT HOME! it's a ice breaker... or a destruction of a relationship???? Gee? Do mom's put there kids before there relationships. YEP!>>>> Opppssss! only 2 yrs more to go.. and I'm Free.... Free... I tell you and God help this world! Purrrrrrrrrrr! |
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