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i rate someone i havent rated before
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4/10
i really just smacked my keyboard and whatever number came up first thats what i gave meh |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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Age doesn't matter in regards to who wants a serious relationship. I've known men in their 30s who didn't want one, and I've known men in their 20s who did. So it just depends on the person. It helps if you talk to them upfront about what they want so you don't waste time on someone who doesn't have the same goals as you. for sure, time is something i dont want to waste. |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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You will have more relationships. Some gonna last longer, some gonna be short. If you're lucky you might hook on the next one or the one after. I'm 34, I had 5 relationships. The shortest one was about 4 months. The longest one was 5 years. I've never been married. You aren't missing out on anything. It's not you who is the problem, but the world. Over the years, i have noticed it's harder and harder to find anyone who is serious about to commit for a serious relationship, but hopefully things will change for the better. ahh damn, i was hopeing it was just my age group that girls werent interested in a serious relationship. guess its hard to find that even when youre older. |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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in every relationship i have been in everything seems fine. after about a month the relationship ends. they always say the same thing " you really are a great guy" if i am, what happened? i just dont understand where these relationships are going bad. im not mean, although i will occasionally joke around, along the lines of calling them a big head or something. the only thing i can really think of is what we are both looking for. im not here for sex (celibate), i am trying to find someone to be with for a long time or for the rest of my life. and for the most part i think they are trying to get something physical out of me or just not looking for a serious relationship. Kids these days. Want everything yesterday and for it to last forever. Take a chill pill and pace yourself. How many of these "relationships" have you had??? I'm lucky someone knows anything but my screenname in a month...and this is with me have met them in person.  I say if the person is still around 6 months from the time we meet, he'll find out. No use in getting too involved too soon.  ) You are 18...of course, you think a month is forever in terms of connecting with someone and consider it a long term relationship. Heck, that's like half a summer even. Where does the time go???? Look, you seem like a nice enough kid. No use in getting wrapped up in one person. I'm not saying go screw your brains out with a bunch of different people...but you got a whole life ahead of you to find your forever person. Go to school and get an education then worry about other things. (Dammit, I just turned into my mom there  i have been in 3 relationships. i always know the person for a long time before we date, at least 3 months. it just takes me a while to commit to a relationships due to not wanting to get hurt (like that works). yea i know that, just sucks. i guess its just my situation that i am kinda wanting to get into something fast. and theres nothing wrong with turning into your mum. |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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thanks for the help everyone, i can see now that what i am looking for isnt something that can be rushed or exactly looked for. its just gonna happen, i cant make it happen or even try to make it happen. as for dates i dont even think about making them a life partner. but more of whats happening in the moment the moment.
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Something Wrong With Me?
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in every relationship i have been in everything seems fine. after about a month the relationship ends. they always say the same thing " you really are a great guy" if i am, what happened? i just dont understand where these relationships are going bad. im not mean, although i will occasionally joke around, along the lines of calling them a big head or something. the only thing i can really think of is what we are both looking for. im not here for sex (celibate), i am trying to find someone to be with for a long time or for the rest of my life. and for the most part i think they are trying to get something physical out of me or just not looking for a serious relationship. Put out,or get out.... err no thanks? |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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I just looked at your profile... for heavens sake, your 18 years old. Go travel around Europe, live in the mountains for a summer...something. What are you worried about? Your saying you want to find someone to be with for a long time, or the rest of your life. Do you even have a clue how different you will be 10 years from now? I suppose not. What's the song.." Young hearts be free tonight, time is on your side" all of these sounds fun and everything. but the most fun for me would be having someone. i just think time is against me even though i am young. |
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Topic:
Something Wrong With Me?
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at 18,, you have plenty of time yet,,, very true, its just a matter of the waiting game now. and i usually lose. 
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Something Wrong With Me?
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When you say, after a month the 'relationship ends',,,,it makes me wonder if you are taking time to get to know these young ladies or jumping into expectations right off the bat. From your profile, you seem to be a happy and healthy guy, Id say to just take your time and make your goal to make friends. When someone with similar goals and dreams comes along, you will know it but until then,,,you dont want to settle just for the sake of having a relationship anyway,,,, i usually date someone i have known for quite a while and eventually one of us will make the move to be with eachother. and even though the relationship is over i tend to stay friends with them. i dont ever want to settle for something. i know eventually someone will come along, its just a matter of how long. |
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Something Wrong With Me?
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im sure you are right, its just frustrating when this happens over and over.
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Topic:
Something Wrong With Me?
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in every relationship i have been in everything seems fine. after about a month the relationship ends. they always say the same thing " you really are a great guy" if i am, what happened? i just dont understand where these relationships are going bad. im not mean, although i will occasionally joke around, along the lines of calling them a big head or something. the only thing i can really think of is what we are both looking for. im not here for sex (celibate), i am trying to find someone to be with for a long time or for the rest of my life. and for the most part i think they are trying to get something physical out of me or just not looking for a serious relationship.
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Topic:
Profile Pictures......
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Ha.... You think you got problems with people not approving of your profile pix? You got nooooooo idea baby....... walk a mile in my shoes.......    the first one just scares me but the other two are cool |
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maybe a little too high of a rating
2,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000.4 thats better |
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i agree with you
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1/10
for being forum police |
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sweet room |
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8/10
stephen is off topic when he says someone is off topic as well i dont understand |
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ehh i dont feel like reading up on a person to just give them a rating
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