Paul said it was better to marry than to burn. That he would others could be like him. But is that being realistic? We make these vows then try to live up to them. God said that it is not good that man should be alone. Maybe God had prior experience. Experience is a good teacher. God was alone with just the void for company before he created creation. Does the void even need to be created? It is the absence of something. The Romans had no zero. It must have been hard of them to even conceive of the nothingness. It is said that nature abhors a vacuum. But how can that be if there is a thing called the Black Hole? But God can even keep the Black Hole in check. Jesus said that God is a spirit. God spent time with Adam but still he said that it is not good that man should be alone. God gave man a choice of all the animals. But God made man is in his image. God has the duality but man is single like woman is single. If God needed someone like him the Son of the Morning wouldn't have to be cast down. But the Son of the Morning is a poor excuse for God. If you can conceive that the Highlander's saying that there can be only one then it isn't so hard to accept the first commandment. God didn't say, "Be fruitful just to be fruitful" God made trees, too. We are supposed to be wise as serpent not be serpents. God doesn't want man to be a snake. God already made snakes. I think Adam made a good choice in picking Eve.

I heard the very best advice today that I think would help ANY relationship endure if it was a mutual value and it was this


ask yourself everyday 'how can I love (your partner) a little bit more today and bring out the best in them?'


if we would mutually strive towards that goal everyday, our relationships would be so much more fulfilling and everlasting,,,,

I think men would like that just as much as women, from someone they truly loved anyhow

That's crazy, you are beautiful. I think you'll find that there are a number of white men who are open to (if not eager for) a black girlfriend.