Okay, so you are married. And, you have moved out. This implies that you are distancing yourself from the relationship. You are the one telling her, "We should end this." Again, this implies you are attempting to distance yourself from the relationship.

You state that your wife has 'trust issues'...and how do you think your behavior is helping her heal from those issues? Do you think demanding more time with her is helping? Do you think bouncing back and forth between the "let's end this" routine and the "spend more time with me" routine is making her feel as if she can fully trust you?

Try to walk in her shoes for just a moment. Pretend to understand what it's like to have trust issues and then hear your partner tell you the things you have listed here. That can't possibly be helping the situation, Darlin'.

Pick a side. Then work towards your goal. If you are frustrated and confused about it...spend a few days alone. Relax. There is no "time frame" on your decision, is there? Don't take another step towards her or away from her until you are at peace with the decision you make.

And actually sound good doing it.

Oh yes there are all kinds of generas of music. One in particular is Avant-guard.

That is the classification for anything that cannot be classified otherwise.

A personal favorite of mine is the Residents. They are somewhat obscure. They have a very long history and a serious cult following.

They can display some rather incredible talent with how they strangle music the way they do. They are to music as Dali is to art.

Then there is Primus. Oh God yes there is a Primus. Their music can be rather unusual in its structure to "formal" music (including rock).

There is a big difference in this that these bands do not suck. They are just so damn exotic from what we would consider main stream anything.

You could call this musical surrealism. A lot of Psychedelia loosely fits in this category but again compare Pink Floyd to the residents.... YOU CAN'T DO IT!

What are other favorite musical surrealists out there? I am always out to uncover more obscurities!