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Fri 04/10/09 01:39 PM

Just a thought.

If you are coming across too strong
as assuming you are already engaged
to marry some time soon...

The chap, may not be that into you
to make such a serious commitment.

If he is going to feel trapped
and unready, any pressure will
make him run the other way...

All I feel now is, if he qestioned you
on what you mentioned to him, he is either
looking at your motive, feel what you asked
was to early to discuss, as there is no given
commitment to the relationship.

Remember you both are still strangers in ways,
a few dates does not neassarily mean love
rather being lust...

AND.... for goodness sake make sure you both
take and use protection...



AND.... for goodness sake make sure you both
take and use protection...-------i will cancel my plans for the weekend trip. i am in no way going with that kind of misunderstanding


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Fri 04/10/09 01:27 PM


okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage
everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return!

i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return
(never attempted to be inappropriate)

and stated he would be glad to do it again
love I sure wouldlove


u are such a sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Fri 04/10/09 01:27 PM


okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage
everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return!

i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return
(never attempted to be inappropriate)

and stated he would be glad to do it again


You placed an ad asking for a free massage? Or were you bartering some service of your own (no, I"m not talking sex)? This confuses me.


i placed an ad for a massage- no sex, nothing sexual- just need the massage....no bartering of anything

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Fri 04/10/09 01:26 PM

I would so give you a massage if I were there... I attend massage parties now and then that are non sexual and they are great! $20.00 and they last four hours of giving and receiving massages! I am learning many techniques from the massage therapists in attendance and so far nobody has complained about my techniques either.

About CL... that is a very scary place to try to hook up for something like that from a stranger... Please be careful...

But on a more pleasant note about CL, I met a lovely lady there a few weeks ago and we are having a wonderful time! Surprised me and she! She had placed an ad for friends with no strings or expectations and I sent her an e-mail asking her to be very careful and we ended up dating. So there are some nice people on there, but a TON of not so nice people there too.

Happy massage-ing!


thank you for both the compliment and concerns
luv my friends on mingle!

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Fri 04/10/09 01:20 PM

Hey Joyceflowerforyou

I agree with the following

1. You apologized for what I'm not sure, but okay.

2. He's making a mountain out of a mole hill.

3. He sounds uptight

4. If your questioning the whole thing,
I would go with your instincts and step back.
"thinking were not "right" for each other"

5. He should have been happy that your were comfortable enough
to ask, share, and care about something like that.

Well thats my input

biggrin

waving


thank you
i appreciate your opinion

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Fri 04/10/09 01:12 PM
seems to be a different group of ppl
before we were great friends
i came into the community to be with friends

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Fri 04/10/09 01:09 PM
craigslist

online- this guy was hard to find, can not imagine the emails i had to shift through

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Fri 04/10/09 01:08 PM

I feel so dirty,:banana: :banana:
hell the guy should be happy your open like that.



okay--- i thought all guys liked that
silly me-
and why does that mean you are not serious about a long term relationship?
i want to have a long term relationship where we can have an awesome sex life and never be bored in the bedroom!

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Fri 04/10/09 01:02 PM
i am thinking that maybe we are not "right" for each other because if certain things are an issue or misunderstanding from the get go........

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Fri 04/10/09 01:00 PM
okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage
everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return!

i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return
(never attempted to be inappropriate)

and stated he would be glad to do it again

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Fri 04/10/09 11:11 AM

You asked a question about sex and he questioned your motives?

Call the guy and talk to him.



i did, we have talked several times after.....he can not get (understand) why i would even ask that and still questions what i really want.

i said i am sorry...all things happen for a reason, this to get my feet planted and my head out of the clouds---- move at a slower pace, maybe not meet again at the ranch

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Fri 04/10/09 11:04 AM
i met a nice guy on my trip to houston
we decided to meet again 1/2 between austin and houston @ his parents ranch
we have been texting back and forth, talking on the tele
decided on a date in a couple weeks
the subject about "making luv" under the stars came up
both agree that might happen because i felt there would be a long term ending to this

anyway to make a long story stort i texted him this:
do you talk during? dirty?

just wanted to find out his likes/dislikes...did not want to do something stupid if he did not like it


well, he took it as unsure of what my real intentions are.....a fling or a long term relationship...

comments/opinions:

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Tue 04/07/09 09:33 PM
how many do you read?

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Tue 04/07/09 02:15 PM
well, who knows if it will go anywhere
there is distance
however- nice to know that it can work

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Tue 04/07/09 01:25 PM


had a match from houston recently--
odd enough, my children's aunt passed away and the funeral was
Sunday in houston
i did meet him for dinner and we hit it off, we have since talked on the telephone and plan to meet again
if anything i hope to be friends
mutual match works after all

flowerforyou It was nice to meet you.bigsmile I had a good time sunday in houston too. :heart:


you live in houston?

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Tue 04/07/09 01:19 PM
had a match from houston recently--
odd enough, my children's aunt passed away and the funeral was
Sunday in houston
i did meet him for dinner and we hit it off, we have since talked on the telephone and plan to meet again
if anything i hope to be friends
mutual match works after all

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Tue 03/10/09 07:23 PM
thing for you to do now Logan is to join in some of the community topics

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Mon 03/09/09 05:02 PM
Logan is my oldest son
He lives in Fort Worth
I suggested he try Mingle2

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Sun 03/08/09 10:01 PM
it is very difficult
sometimes people you think you can trust let you down

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Sun 03/08/09 09:59 PM
Everyone say hi to Logan----
<<<<logan2009>>>>>>




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