Community > Posts By > Shagwell

 
Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:32 PM

Moving forward with extreme caution. Always have an extra pile of cash. Just in case.


I think cash can be a solution to a lot of problems! drinks

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:29 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


I'm can't control what happens but I choose how to react to the events as they happen. I might not like what happens but I always find a positive side and find the best solution.


do you always find a solution?

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:27 PM

I have a child to raise. I am in control of his life as well as mine at this point. I make the most of what I have and live day to day. I do not think about what the future holds, just what we need at this moment in time.


the road becomes very clear when you have a child and that is to raise the best way you can! flowerforyou

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:21 PM

I can exert more control of matters than I usually do, but that is my choice.
Having chosen this path, this adventure, and come just this far, I am cautious about committime to change too much too drastically or quickly.



so you are pretty much in that comfort zone? bigsmile

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:20 PM

Ever hear the one; Wanna' make God laugh? Just tell him your plans.
Not even the next breath is guaranteed.
I plan what I can and have goals. However, I know, I have to be open to change.
That's what's made me a survivor all these years.


I love your answer! rofl :thumbsup:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:16 PM



hehehehehehe I get lost easily...even with the map gps and a competent passenger...


now you see why men dont ask for directions, we know you are lost also! tongue2 :laughing:


but I like getting lost I find things I never knew were there

which is good..and fun:tongue:


the same when I am driving...I get to see a new place! tongue2

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:15 PM



It's pretty much going forward.

and.....changes to what?


are you positive it is going forward?flowerforyou


Mostly. But as with most things in life....there are ups and downs. My outlook on my own life does tend to flux a tad...but in general....I'm happy.flowerforyou


the road to happiness is a tricky mofo! frustrated

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:13 PM

My life goes the way it wants I just follow it.



I always wanted to try and let my life lead and I follow, I just can't! drinks

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:10 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:



Control - Sure I am!


Changes - Naw, I'm just moving faster.



damn, you almost ran me off!!!

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:08 PM

Yes, and yes...makes it far easier to stay on goals at hand, without the constant bother of whether I am doing something right or wrong.



how do they bother you? you mean by always nagging? :laughing:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:06 PM

never lost......just misoriented!!!!!


I remember drinking every night! :laughing:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:04 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


If there's anything I've ever learned about life, it's that no one's in control of anything. You might THINK you do, but there are too many variables present that can put a monkey wrench in your plans.


I am sure we can prepare for some vaiables and how we can deal with them. drinker

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:00 PM

We are all in control even when we say we aren't.

It's not an option, even if you choose not to make a choice. It's still your choice for choosing not to make it.


but is it not "not making a choice" kind of an easy way out? drinker

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:57 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


Yes. As long as you leave enough slack in your goals to vary course according to the world around you.

Being single ain't the best situation but it helps to fulfill your goals if you dont worry about someone elses too.

Although one old girlfriend long ago helped me to define mine better and get a start...so I guess it could go both ways.


:thumbsup:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:56 PM

yep staying under my rock


what's under there? huh

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:55 PM

hehehehehehe I get lost easily...even with the map gps and a competent passenger...


now you see why men dont ask for directions, we know you are lost also! tongue2 :laughing:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:54 PM

It's pretty much going forward.

and.....changes to what?


are you positive it is going forward?flowerforyou

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:50 PM
...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:46 PM
hell yeah I would do it, but replace carlos mencia with jessic alba! love

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 12:28 PM
I wish I can have this one person this Valentine's...but it's a long shot!


1 2 3 4 6 8 9 10 24 25