Look at the positive side of love, the compromises, and sacifices to be
made, can you committ to someone that you love?

if it's real love, yes I would !!
but to do it, have to make sure is love, not just a passion
or to have a good time, like some man think love is!!!

note: I said some men not all of them...

Yes sir, already have.

how do you KNOW its love? at my age one would think i would know.. I
know the love of my family my children and all but when it comes to a
man.. HOW do we know ? anyone know? ya find someone you adore you would
do anything for . give your life for them. and HOW do you know that same
person has the same feelings??OUTSIDE THE lovemaking?? GUYS??? got any
answer
OR is that the conqsequences you're talking about? live learn? mmmmm??

With me, I just knew. Right off the bat. I met my wife online in a
chat-room, and we've been married for 5 1/2 years now, and I wouldn't
change it for all the $$ in the world. If there's anybody doubtin that
you can find your true love online, think again. You just have to find
someone that is genuinely good, and don't expect sh*t to be perfect. It
won't, it can't. No relationship is. You have to put the other's
feelings as the same priority as yours. If BOTH people don't at least
TRY to do that, it won't work.

Well, for arguement sake, lets say you love this person, and they love
you, no doubts, okay now back to the question at hand.

Love is a risk.....you take your chances....can I ??Yes I can and will
and have.

Well, if you go into a relationship holdin back, you/they can never
experience the full potential of the relationship. Okay, some don't work
out, honestly, a lot of them don't work out. But if you're afraid of the
consequences of love, you can never reap the benifits of it either.

That,s what I,m talking about !

Amen !!!!!!!
Red like I said you and Mimi Rawkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!

Thanx, I believe I was arguin the same point as he was though.
Sorry, just passionate about the subject.

Those that have lost, learn a different lesson about love. Yes it
does reach beyond the grave, it reaches thru all of time. I hear people
bickering & want to ask them; "How would you feel if you each went a
different way & one of you never came back". The loss is permanent. I
regret so the time we wasted in the QUEST for fame & fortune. We had
the greatest treasure ever & wasted some of it. Folks always love like
there is no tomorrow, for someday that may be true.

DANG!!! GREAT first post!!!



This is for you.

yeah, thats true, lets keep it positive, please!

Well, whats positive about compromise, and sacifice !

Is the consequence of love pain? or what?

of course, worry, loss of sleep, headaches, hunger ...etc!

More afraid of the consequences of ..........NO love .

then stop blowing stuff up.

welllllllllllllllllll.. then IM not afraid.. stared it in the face a
time or two and liVed .. sometimes we WIN sometimes we lose? huh .......
randy