It is amazing how ignorant men are about women and their capablilities
of totally destroying their world. I have had two experiences of men who
pursued me, won my heart only to discover that they were married and
everything I was told, just about, were lies. One man is facing a prison
sentence and the other, well he almost lost his MD license and had a
visit to his house at 3:30am one morning after the truth came out. I
have a girlfriend who just turned her ex in to the authorities after
learning that he was cheating on her with two other females. She is a
court reported and knew just what to do to get him convicted. So why do
men play? I know there are female players too. But men have more
frequently underestimated the length to which a hurt female will go to
get even. Lets hear the stories.

I know a man that had a one nite stand with a woman, and she wanted
more. When she learned that she would not she made up a story that he
raped her. The police came to his job and arrested him. He was fired,
but eventually cleared of the rape
charges, he later found and killed the woman that made up the lies about
him and has served 3 years in a mental hospital
and is now married and comfortable.

I understand what you say here and that is wrung but can tell you
these I have seen just as many woman chett and lie and do the same
thang as guys but yet when a guy duess it its all over the place but
yet when a woman do it oh cover it up

I have a xxx who chetted over and over when I was at work hell she
eveion dumed her only child for another man so dont want to here
about how bad men are when woman are no better at all in any way there
more woman chetting and lieing then guys now days

That was wrong. A one night stand is different. The woman was totally
wrong. But an established relationship built on lies is a serious
matter.

Bill, I agree that there are women who are just as bad. So let me
rephrase: Why do people play with other people's emotion?

you do not buld a relsionship on lies its wrung for any one to do
that

woman are men and its aso wrung to strotype out others bye looks
so see yes some one gets hurt lies and strotypeing all fall the same
hurts others for no good resons

Any woman that would use the law as a weapon like you said your
girlfriend did should be killed like a dog.

thank you ok thats right no one should play with others in that way
its just right out wrung

RN, don't listen to them. I understand what you are taking about. I
too have found that many people are not honest; but, it isn't just men.
You've had some bad experiences as have I. Even the man I was married
to for almost 25 years turned out to be a liar and cheat.

I think we all have our expectations that we believe will materialize in
our relationships and when it doesn't happen, we look for someone to
blame. Take things slowly; there's a good person out there for you

both sex's should not play with each others emotions. It's bad for both
parties!!!

thats right man are woman dont matter no one should play with others
harts and feelings and yes there are so many lies going on everyday
from both mean and woman \\
strotypeing using and just plan out mind games and it needs to stop
ones who do these thangs should be alone with no one

Thats true, but making up stories and causing someone to go to jail is
unbelievable hatred. No way should a woman be allow to live after doing
something like that.

Being that I am a woman, I can only talk from a woman's point of view.
While a player is planning on his sexual encounter he not aware that
"his woman" is knows about his game and that she is scheming to get
even. If only you men know the things I know. I am a Christian, but I am
fairly attractive and have had so many approaches from men. My
heartbreaks served as learning experiences and so I have become less
trusting and more educated in matters of the heart. The last man who
tired to play me did not know how I got his address. I had all his info
and was only waiting for him to come clean with me. When I was rudely
awaken by another female at 1AM, it was time for me to act. I opened his
eyes when I knocked on his door and had a lenghty conversation with his
wife. I am not crazy but that man now face divorce and unrelenting anger
from his wife. He could lose a lot.

Slick, she had every right to do what she did as every person has a
right to defend themselves. I have a friend that lived from shelter to
shelter with her son to hopefully avoid being killed by her husband.
Unless you've been there, please don't post an opinion.

Chose your men better, you should know how to do that!

Slick, the lady did not lie to send the man to jail. He forged Insurance
document and she just turned him in. You see, never trust a woman you
are cheating with. If you cannot be trusted, then do not trust. It will
come back to bite you.

onalark, she said that her friend lied to get a man convicted.
nothing about a stupid domestic issue.

You do not know who you are choosing until you get to know the
individual. My last was a doctor, the kind you would take home to your
mother. How do you know who you are getting involved with until you have
had the chance to get to know them. Sometimes the attraction takes the
lead and intimacy gets the better of us before we get to know enough to
decide. We are humans and everyone deserves a fair chance.

And I bet he spend some of the money he stole on her, she,s the kind of
tramp that give tramps a bad name.

Slick, I never said my friend lied. She is a court reporter who used her
connections to inform the right people to get him convicted. He is now
charged with Insurance Fraud, a felony. She turned him in because he
deceived her. A cheat and player should not leave his shoes outside the
door.