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Topic: Ok so i dont get it....
Sexysari004 Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 625	Tue 05/20/08 08:24 PM
Right i met this guy off of a site who was wanting the same things i did.. he wanted a real connection but then decided he only wanted a friend with benefits. which is not something i go for.... so we decided to be friends but he always wanted and tried to get into my pants... he never did, but never wanted anything more either.. so i started talkin to someone else and this guy and i started seeing one another and that guy who only wanted to sleep with me got mad and wont talk to me anymore.. things didnt work out with the guy i started seeing.. but i just dont understand.. if he didnt wana date me why did he get so mad..

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Tue 05/20/08 08:25 PM
its because you have your tongue sticking out

justmenoel Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 3137	Tue 05/20/08 08:25 PM
Right i met this guy off of a site who was wanting the same things i did.. he wanted a real connection but then decided he only wanted a friend with benefits. which is not something i go for.... so we decided to be friends but he always wanted and tried to get into my pants... he never did, but never wanted anything more either.. so i started talkin to someone else and this guy and i started seeing one another and that guy who only wanted to sleep with me got mad and wont talk to me anymore.. things didnt work out with the guy i started seeing.. but i just dont understand.. if he didnt wana date me why did he get so mad.. its that age old saying...you're gonna miss me when im gone

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Tue 05/20/08 08:26 PM
Most guys hang around as 'friends' just hoping that one day you will finally give in to the benefits side....they don't like seeing anyone else have what they don't have.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 05/20/08 08:26 PM
hmmmmmmmmmm maybe wait to have sex next time jmo

Gita36 Joined Sun 03/09/08 Posts: 372	Tue 05/20/08 08:35 PM
Same reason Dogs pee on everything! He was marking his spot and someone trespassed.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 05/20/08 08:44 PM
Crudely put but so true!

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Tue 05/20/08 08:50 PM
Right i met this guy off of a site who was wanting the same things i did.. he wanted a real connection but then decided he only wanted a friend with benefits. which is not something i go for.... so we decided to be friends but he always wanted and tried to get into my pants... he never did, but never wanted anything more either.. so i started talkin to someone else and this guy and i started seeing one another and that guy who only wanted to sleep with me got mad and wont talk to me anymore.. things didnt work out with the guy i started seeing.. but i just dont understand.. if he didnt wana date me why did he get so mad.. If they're within your age, chances are that "nookie" is the ONLY thing on their minds. So you just gotta weed out the horndogs from those who aren't. It might take a bit of searching though, as the fellas don't start to mellow out until their late-twenties, if at all.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Tue 05/20/08 09:08 PM
Most guys hang around as 'friends' just hoping that one day you will finally give in to the benefits side....they don't like seeing anyone else have what they don't have. What he ^ ^ ^ ^ said.....smart guy....

smuckdaddy Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 55	Wed 05/21/08 11:28 AM
Right i met this guy off of a site who was wanting the same things i did.. he wanted a real connection but then decided he only wanted a friend with benefits. which is not something i go for.... so we decided to be friends but he always wanted and tried to get into my pants... he never did, but never wanted anything more either.. so i started talkin to someone else and this guy and i started seeing one another and that guy who only wanted to sleep with me got mad and wont talk to me anymore.. things didnt work out with the guy i started seeing.. but i just dont understand.. if he didnt wana date me why did he get so mad.. It's like this, a lot of guys these days will try and get into anyones pants that they can, and if someone takes away what thy deem to be their oppertunities, htey get mad at that girl because the girl pretty much is saying no but then that's the only time they actually get it. guys... actually i should really just say people because a lot of girls are like this too.... People don't listen to another when they are rejected for something so some just tune it out and will try get what they want anyways. Keep looking though, I garuntee you that there are plenty of nice guys out in the world. Tyler Smucker

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 05/21/08 11:32 AM
just dont understand.. if he didnt wana date me why did he get so mad.. No brainer, literally. You were meant to serve the idiot. Didn't you know that?