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Topic: Had had this discussion with a male friend...
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Sat 05/24/08 08:17 PM
Edited by LouLou2 on Sat 05/24/08 08:18 PM
what do you think?

We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest.

He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! huh Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable?

I think he is mistaken...very mistaken grumble .

kfez's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:19 PM
he is mistaken in my opinion

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Sat 05/24/08 08:19 PM
He's mistaken...very very very very very mistaken.
Did I mention he was mistaken??? laugh

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Sat 05/24/08 08:19 PM

He's mistaken...very very very very very mistaken.
Did I mention he was mistaken??? laugh
laugh laugh laugh drinker drinker

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Sat 05/24/08 08:21 PM
i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus

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Sat 05/24/08 08:22 PM
I haven't been sexually active that much in my life,in fact it's been almost a year.But I tell ya what I feel like I'm in overdrive right now,maybe I'm in my prime or something,but I don't think I'll ever lose my sex drive.

LouLou2's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:23 PM

i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus


laugh laugh :wink: laugh laugh

Gita36's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:23 PM

i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus



drinker

Has an SUV and still drives

seahawks's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:24 PM

I haven't been sexually active that much in my life,in fact it's been almost a year.But I tell ya what I feel like I'm in overdrive right now,maybe I'm in my prime or something,but I don't think I'll ever lose my sex drive.

quik jump on shhhhh no passengers , but no one will know.!!!!laugh laugh flowerforyou :tongue: drinker

beachbum069's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:25 PM
VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style

seahawks's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:25 PM

VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style
laugh laugh laugh

cdanny47's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:26 PM
:smile: I don't think about it much now,,, but I have no one to think about so their you go,,, Why make thinking's worst??

LightVoice's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:27 PM
he is very mistaken ....

actully, I don't think he could not be more wrong! LOL

LouLou2's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:28 PM

VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style


laugh laugh laugh blushing

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Sat 05/24/08 08:29 PM
Could not be more mistaken...devil

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Sat 05/24/08 08:30 PM
very, very wrong

DQ66's photo
Sat 05/24/08 08:47 PM
So very very wrong!!!! Matter of fact I have more of a sexdrive since I'm single.laugh Maybe I was married to the wrong guy???:tongue: And no, don't have anyone to share the joy with either. grumble

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Sat 05/24/08 09:21 PM
Edited by Drivinmenutz on Sat 05/24/08 09:23 PM

what do you think?

We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest.

He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! huh Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable?

I think he is mistaken...very mistaken grumble .


You're friend made an incorrect assumptionflowerforyou

However, the less you have sex, the less you want it. This is proven to be true, at least while you are in a relationship and there aren't any outside factors (like distance). This is why when couples say they dont have sex often enough councelors sometimes suggest they have sex, regularly (like every night before bed). The partners will crave the sex more and more as it becomes a habit.

Anyway, with age it is true, we do lose much of our sex drive. This happens earlier in men than it does women. Age does inhibit, but it won't necesarily destroy.

Another factor is length of the relationship. Relationships go through stages. Unfortunately when you reach the comfort stage you lose some of the desire to rip your partner's clothes off. (Comfort concides with loss of infactuation, but strengthening love) There are some who keep this "honeymoon stage" of the relationship going, sometimes through it's entirety. drinker drinker drinker To couples that can do that.

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Sat 05/24/08 09:26 PM


what do you think?

We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest.

He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! huh Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable?

I think he is mistaken...very mistaken grumble .


You're friend made an incorrect assumptionflowerforyou

However, the less you have sex, the less you want it. This is proven to be true, at least while you are in a relationship and there aren't any outside factors (like distance). This is why when couples say they dont have sex often enough councelors sometimes suggest they have sex, regularly (like every night before bed). The partners will crave the sex more and more as it becomes a habit.

Anyway, with age it is true, we do lose much of our sex drive. This happens earlier in men than it does women. Age does inhibit, but it won't necesarily destroy.

Another factor is length of the relationship. Relationships go through stages. Unfortunately when you reach the comfort stage you lose some of the desire to rip your partner's clothes off. (Comfort concides with loss of infactuation, but strengthening love) There are some who keep this "honeymoon stage" of the relationship going, sometimes through it's entirety. drinker drinker drinker To couples that can do that.




WOW!!

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Sat 05/24/08 09:30 PM

what do you think?

We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest.

He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! huh Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable?

I think he is mistaken...very mistaken grumble .


They are wrong! My own experience says so!:wink:

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