Topic: The procrastinator (Hope it is spelled right)
Lantz's photo
Mon 02/19/07 04:44 PM
So I want to know if anyone else has this problem either than me. I
know this isn't as hard as the Iraq question earlier in these forums but
I think that to get this out there might help not only me, but others as
well...

So Let's say that I meet this great girl and we hit it off and then
when I decide to take it to the next level two of things happen:

1) She says: "Oh (Real name excluded), you are a great guy and
I don't want to ruin what we have. I mean, you are like a brother to me
and it would be just to weird.

2) I wait to long and she breaks the news to me that I was too
late and if I had asked earlier she would have gone out with me. And
then when her relationship is over and I wait until the right moment she
says above...

So is there something that I am doing wrong that causes the "Friend
Syndrome"? I mean I don't push it to hard and when I am getting to know
the girl we hit it off really well. Hence, why I am trying internet
dating...

Please help;
Lantz

no photo
Mon 02/19/07 05:00 PM


Well I do't know your age but you do look yong have asked her out to
a movie or if on line there is your favoit music you two can shair You
do have time.....

creationsfire's photo
Mon 02/19/07 05:44 PM
I say, just keep being yourself and the right lady will see that. Don't
get frustated. If any of the things that you said happen, she wasn't the
right one. Keep trying. Keep your head up and your eyes open.

Good luck

FedMan's photo
Mon 02/19/07 05:47 PM
LOL poor Lantz you are definately in the friend zone, just hang in
there bro the right one will happen along