Topic: What to do?
LaurenLynn's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:11 PM
Ok I have been with my bf since new years. We live together but about 3 months ago, the sex just STOPPED. Besides that and the fact that everyday is the same, things are great most of the time. What do i do? I think that i could be missing something bc i just moved here in august.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:15 PM
mix things up a little...maybe a trip to the porn store, and a sexy outfit......


idk, my best friends are going though that same thing right now. and one of them came and stayed with me for a few nights and the other went and stayed with her parents, just for some nights apart..it worked pretty well for them.

LaurenLynn's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:16 PM
ok well i'm going out of the state for the weekend but i have tried that before and things went back to the way they were in about a week.

wisenconfident's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:17 PM
So I dont want to put any ideas in your head but it seems as if you are wondering....it could be that work has got him down or maybe bills or it could be the move. Also it could be someone flirting with him and he has his mind elsewhere. You could do some thing unpredictable and pretend you are someone else and do things you don't normally do in the sack then he will wonder and you can get on track good luck.............

Brenda_Darling's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:18 PM
maybe theres something going on in his head...try talking about it... if anything be like i want sex more often.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:18 PM
Ah, howcome your on a dating site if you have a boyfriend?

LaurenLynn's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:19 PM
well i just moved here. he has lived here his whole life. it just seems that we are roommates now. should i move on or wait?

no photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:19 PM
hhhmmm sounds like a serious talk is needed ...

if this is important to you then you need to be able to openly discuss it with him flowerforyou

personally, I know that sex is not the be all end all to a relationship, if there are health problems, etc. but in a brand new relationship with no 'medical' reason apparent I'd certainly want to know what's going on...
that is just too important an aspect to me

good luck to you! flowerforyou


LaurenLynn's photo
Wed 06/18/08 01:19 PM

Ah, howcome your on a dating site if you have a boyfriend?


bc i just moved here and would like more friends!

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:47 PM
You could just try coming right out and telling him how you feel and see if he feels the same way and talk it out.