I've dated these 2 differnt girls. One was a model and very pretty. We didnt share much in common, and she was very demanding and would pout.

Every time i saw her, or her picture she gradually grew uglier.

I've dated another girl who was over weight, and was average looking. She was kind, loving, respectful and fun to hang out with.

Every time i saw her or her picture she gradually looked more and more beautiful

She then started to become cold, calous, and mean

every time i saw her or her picture then, she gradually looked more and more ugly.


Thats why i don't value looks that much. The more i like someone, and the better we get along, the more beautiful her outside physical apperance becomes to me.

Youre not only a good woman, but a good person as well

Oh heck, put a paper bag on my head!

Untrue.... it depends on the person and what attracts them and gives them that "feeling"

Too many people go for "physical attraction" and put that as a priority.....

... then they end up here posting a new topic on why "men/women are such jerks" etc....

... or they wonder if/when they'll ever have/fall in love... whether they'll ever know love at all....

... or wonder why they're attracted to "bad boys/girls" and not decent people.....