How come I always meet the girls that have a world of drama. Why cant I
find someone that is down to earth and easy going. I just want to be
with someone and cant find anyone worth being with.

There comes a time when we have to self evaluate. Sounds to me, it's
your time. Good luck to ya.

That is so sad honey!!! Where are you finding these women?? Maybe u
need to fish in a different pond.

Yeah. First it was my wife, she cheated on me with my cousin, and then
it was a girlfriend that I was seeing for a year, she ran off and got
married with her ex, and did not tell me until she got back. SO I ask
is it me and what do I have to change. Or is it just dumb luck.

I feel for ya mbailey, I too have had problems with my ex leaving me for
another guy, I dont think its u, but it wouldnt hurt to find out what
went wrong, maybe its just coincedence and thats all it sounds like.

hang in dere bruddah man **** happened to me like it did to you....ive
been in nothin but helpless relationships....sometimes i think we just
too sweet.....its kinda funny....i always ask mahself....why do sum
women claim dey want dat one sweet man....and alwayz nag when dey watch
a chick flick as to why dey man cant be like dat....but when dat one
woman is wit dat special and sweet man...dey tend to take advantdge of
him...knowin his love is true n real...and knowin he still gon be
there....i believe dat alot of women like the assholes....they tend to
cling to the assholes...because the asshole is alwayz makin her try to
earn his love.....and she alwayz tryin to do stuff for him to see show
how much she truly loves him....and alwayz thinkin hes gon change....or
she can change him one day....dats why dey cling to such men....and why
is it dat....many of da sweet guyz wit no kidz....end up wit da ladiez
dat have been abused and hurt....and sometimez with women wo have
kidz....and wit most single mothers....it just sucks sometimes....de
asshole gets da good women....while da sweet man ends up wit da
pshycho....and in de end.....dat good woman wit de asshole....will
eventually end up wit dat sweet man....but its usually too late in
life....dat dey realized dey been missin out and been makin da wrong
choices....i just got through probation and been single now for
2years....cuz da last woman i wuz with tried to throw me in prison for
25 damn years!...but i beat it cuz in de end dey knew i was tellin da
truth and had proof too....she did dat cuz finally i put mah foot down
and realized i couldnt take da **** from her....when i knew i wasnt in
da wrong...when i never hit her abused her in any way...and in da end i
get f'ed.....i lost everythin from mah car mah place and mah job as a
supervisor at the airport....sometimes life just sucks n we just have to
make da best of it....so keep yuh head strong n hang in dere....take
care n JAH+BLESS
-islandking-

Yeah I am hanging in there. But it is pushed in my face every time I
pick up my son. And I hate that.