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Topic: for all....
zman000081's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:45 PM
I'll let ya know in Email.

wyatt1844's photo
Wed 07/09/08 05:05 PM
Wow Izzie - you nailed it. Hoorah!!!

drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou

izzie's photo
Wed 07/09/08 07:02 PM
almost as good as your poetry.flowerforyou

wyatt1844's photo
Wed 07/09/08 07:05 PM

almost as good as your poetry.flowerforyou


Thank you...

izzie's photo
Wed 07/09/08 10:46 PM
any time..
flowerforyou

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 07/09/08 10:51 PM
Thanks for the wonderful words of wisdom Izzieflowerforyou


But I think I'll just stick to using men for their uhhhh Pickles devil

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:34 PM
seek friendship above all else.. both from your partner as well as from your friends... when the dust settles.. the love of a true friend will never let you down.. seek advice, fun, companionship and love from your friends.. and be a friend to your mate..


Soooo true....:wink:

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:38 PM

tho i may not be the best one here to offer advice, i also know that i am not the worst.

my advice for everyone.. and in responce to a lot of advice threads that i have seen recently..

1, long distance relationships only work if you are honest, if you are BOTH honest.. with your feelings, your emotions, and your past/present/future.. these are teh hardest realtionships to keep going... they require constant care.. a LOT of TRUST.. and for some of us that trust one comes hard.. but it is possible.. and the distance will work out.. but the relationship growth can be done if both parties are commited to making it work....

2, love.. if you love someone.. truley love them.. be PATIENT.. many people have been hurt.. most everyone in fact.. and we have emotional baggage.. trust comes hard for us.. and love is not as freely given as it was in the past... and support them.. if they feel the same about you they will see your efforts and they will love you more for your patient support while they delt with how they were feeling for you.. and then do EVERY LITTLE THING IN YOUR POWER TO NEVER HURT THEM... as that is why it was so hard for you in the first place...

3, COMMUNICATE!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is where i particularly struggle.. i do not like to talk about anything bad that is happening to me.. i should be able to deal with it myself.. and if i cant.. i can hide it from everyone.... thats not how it works... share not only the good in your life. but the day to day mundaneness and the bad/scary things as well...

finaly the end to my spheel....

4, seek friendship above all else.. both from your partner as well as from your friends... when the dust settles.. the love of a true friend will never let you down.. seek advice, fun, companionship and love from your friends.. and be a friend to your mate..

ok random i know.. but HEY.. it IS me... would you expect any less??

smitten :heart: flowerforyou love flowers


Thank you oh great one!flowerforyou

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 07/10/08 12:04 AM
Nice post girl flowerforyou

brooke007's photo
Thu 07/10/08 12:07 AM
very nicely put darlin!!
makes a lot of sense!
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Thu 07/10/08 09:42 AM
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franshade's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:47 AM
great post izzie flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 07/10/08 10:01 AM
Sex first and then life opens its doors .

no photo
Thu 07/10/08 10:01 AM
Sex first and then life opens its doors .

izzie's photo
Thu 07/10/08 07:31 PM
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izzie's photo
Mon 07/14/08 06:50 PM
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