Hi everyone My name is Julie. Have you found that when you meet someone
it seems as if they are asking you questions like you on a job
interview. Dating should be fun. Getting to know new people should be
fun. So should some of us out there just lighten up or what? Perfection
isn't out there so lighten up ok. What do you think?

WELL,I think that the reason why some people ask questions is because
they are meeting online and need to know as much about the person as
possible just to make sure we know who we are talking to
that is the reason why lots of people complain that they where talking
to someone and then the person stops talking to them and don't know why,
well many reasons,
and that is the reason why I would if it was me find out who Im talking
to, and make sure I do want to meet or have something to do with that
person!!!

Dating on a website is exactly like finding a job, you have to
do things above and beyond what you would do if in person, for the sake
of being noticed. Its just the same because its the same level of
competition like a jobinterview. One diffrence is that there could be
more than one job opening for multiple people to get the same job. Not
the case here

Nowadays, you have to ask questions! People no longer fall into the
standard categories: single, married, gay, straight, with children,
without children, etc. I once met a guy who was TOO CUTE. We had a lot
in common and our conversations were so good, it was like we had been
friends for years. Chemistry off the chain. While meeting for drinks
with friends, we started having a random discussion about life,
relationships, you know how we do. Well, his friend was talking to mine
and he was married (which we already knew), but as the conversation
progressed, it turned out that my guy was married too! Totally
caught me by surprise. No ring, no ring marks, we talked on the phone
late at night...no signs what so ever. Turns out, he was able to get out
as frequently as he did due to his wife's work scheduele. Now, had I
asked more questions up front, I would have found this out and not
wasted my time. Don't you agree?

When on a 1st date I notice that women ask nosy, and intrusive
questions that make me uncomfortable. Yet I never ask them anything
because she does most of the talking.

lol trae so true!!

Slimshady,

what do you consider to be a nosy, instrusive question?