After much thought about this...here are my 5, although the list could
have been endless....

1. Tell then how much they mean to me, how much I love them

2. Mutual respect, being able to say anything without fear of rejection

3. Kiss them good bye in the morning before going to work, and good
night before going to bed

4. Know that there is compromise, relationsips are work, give and take

5. Last but not least....very important...to have a passionate, sensual,
sexual relationship