Is there anyone else here that is just ready to give up on ever finding another love?

I should have married the girl I loved 15+ years ago instead of letting her get away from me. I guess I have no one else to blame but myself for working to damn hard and being born to an abusive control freak father, but when you are in a situation like that you don’t know what is wrong from right. They say you don’t know what love it until it is gone, well its gone and seems gone for good.

Today, I feel as if I should just toss in the towel and give it all up. The internet is really not the place for finding love they say because only 1 in 500 people ever find anything that counts using systems like this. What else can I do? I am not a bar type person and I am not someone who can just walk up and say “hey baby”…

Oh well, forget it.


Trav

The day after tomorrow is the third day of the rest of your life.

there is a season for everything, planting,growing,reaping. it all comes to us in due time, we just have to be patient and enjoy the journey, and not focus on the destination.

well you know the kansas state motto

"ad astra per aspera"

to the stars through difficulty!

NEVER GIVE UP

Im sorry you are hurting I too just lost the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. I hope you will be okay im always around if you need to talk.
Sarah

I never knew what that meant

Hi, Travis and welcome to the site. I am sorry you are having a rough go at it. Most of us have been in that lonely place and it is hard to break out of it.
As far as being on the internet and finding true love - hey, I heard it can happen. I am not holding my breath, though. But, from what I gather from reading the forums, there is a great bunch of people here that are genuine and the friendships that have obviously been made here help get them through the rough times.

Post on the forums. Get to know the people here and let them get a chance to know you. You will be laughing in no time, I promise!

I am not into the bar scene, either. But, let me tell you, I let my friend talk(maybe I should say hound) me into going to a "bar" tonight to hear her cousin's band. I have been in a funk, like you are now and they wanted to get me out and about. I laughed, danced and had a blast!

I am taking one day at a time. Sometimes one minute at a time. Whether I am meant to be alone or not, I know that I am gonna be OK either way. I wish that same peace for you.