Topic: Would you cheat
silkia's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:19 AM
Hay there:smile: should
people be 100% honest about themselves on a first date and why?

rozey2680's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:23 AM
By all means, if you're not you'll just have to explain yourself later
and perhaps ruin a good relationship. Better to get it out to begin with
and find out your not compatible with someone than wait until feelings
have formed and someone winds up hurt.

FlyersSteph1212's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:24 AM
I believe in 150% honesty...lol. Maybe that's why I'm still single!

mypoison's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:24 AM
yeah people should be 100% honest on a first date...first impressions
are everything..and hell its just a first date the worst that could
happen is that they leave..but thats just me

LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:25 AM
I am always 100% honest about myself..why lie?..you may actually end up
with the person and they will eventually find out anyways.

DANE1973's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:25 AM
Honest, yes. Totally forthcoming,not really.From a mans view you want to
give her just enough information about your self to seem interesting.
Women are more drawn to the mysterious side of you.Don't give away so
much as to spoil the illusion. She wants James Bond,Don't give her
Poindexter.:tongue:

no photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:31 AM
honesty IS the best policy, par none ... but I also agree that to be 100
frothcoming may not be so good .. you may come across as some one who
likes to talk about nothing else but themselves ...
Be hoenst, be upfront, be yourself ...

silkia's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:39 AM
I feel very strongly about it,because to be misslead can be
dangerous,and people get hurt behind lies and foolishness.if you just
met you don`t owe anything but the truth.It gives a person the option to
accept you or reject with no hard feelings because you don`t know them
anyway

jp4023's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:47 AM
Honesty is always the best policy. If you're never honest with your
friends you might regret it later

kATZRFUN's photo
Thu 03/15/07 11:48 AM
yes...the truth always comes out anyway.if they can't handle the truth
then they can't handle you!

jonnyr7's photo
Thu 03/15/07 12:11 PM
i usually tell girls im a doctor or a lawyer on the first date, um, im
not

bigpappa4331's photo
Thu 03/15/07 12:16 PM
no to cheating [lying] but if you're not asked ,try to talk about the
positive's ask about that person's interest's tell about yours so on do
you need to say hey i dated your cousin ? no but if they say ,did you
date my cousin? ,,then yes

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Thu 03/15/07 06:50 PM
yes and mypoison gimme that bulldog!!! I LOVE EM!!!!

kojack's photo
Thu 03/15/07 06:52 PM
If you have to ask....

100 % from day 1 to day I m deceased

littlepeg's photo
Thu 03/15/07 06:57 PM
honesty is the best way to start but I also agree to much info in the
begining may be to much

Tameka's photo
Thu 03/15/07 06:58 PM
you should always be completely honest... however, a first date is not
the time to talk about all issues. Some issues should be saved for a
later date.

kojack's photo
Thu 03/15/07 07:00 PM
I agree only enough info to keep them coming back for 2nd date but be
honest in what you do share with them.

Hotchikita's photo
Thu 03/15/07 07:02 PM
Alwayse say the truth. Lies have a tendency to creep back at you. Ask my
ex.