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Topic: How can you tell if this guy is good to me?
Nicegirl030 Joined Tue 07/15/08 Posts: 129	Thu 08/14/08 07:17 AM
How would you tell if this guy is good for me? He, won't call me or send me offline messages. I think there is something wrong. I don't know what to do I am upset.......and unhappy.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Thu 08/14/08 07:18 AM
If you think there's something wrong, there probably is. Be cautious and follow your instinct.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 08/14/08 07:19 AM
How would you tell if this guy is good for me? He, won't call me or send me offline messages. I think there is something wrong. I don't know what to do I am upset.......and unhappy. I think you just answered your own question.

Nicegirl030 Joined Tue 07/15/08 Posts: 129	Thu 08/14/08 07:19 AM
I am just not focusing right now. I feel like I am guilty.

Magbalihi Joined Thu 08/07/08 Posts: 1815	Thu 08/14/08 07:19 AM
How would you tell if this guy is good for me? He, won't call me or send me offline messages. I think there is something wrong. I don't know what to do I am upset.......and unhappy. What a FOOL he IS!!!!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 08/14/08 07:26 AM
I am just not focusing right now. I feel like I am guilty. you need to find something else to do rather than focus on him. It's possible he's just taking a small break and seeing how you react... Let him come to you. Go find something to do, don't make the center of your world already.

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 08/14/08 07:29 AM
I am just not focusing right now. I feel like I am guilty. you need to find something else to do rather than focus on him. It's possible he's just taking a small break and seeing how you react... Let him come to you. Go find something to do, don't make the center of your world already. Ditto

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Thu 08/14/08 07:30 AM
Next!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Thu 08/14/08 07:37 AM
If it feels off it probably is off. That's your own inner alarms going off. The ladies above all had the right advise. Just go on with what you have to do and don't let the person in question have enough control over your feelings that they are capable of making you unhappy. Either with time they will come tell you what is going on or they will continue to ignore you and you will know they weren't the type person you would want to be with anyway because they couldn't man up and tell you to your face that they are done for what ever reason....

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/14/08 08:24 AM
How would you tell if this guy is good for me? He, won't call me or send me offline messages. I think there is something wrong. I don't know what to do I am upset.......and unhappy. Ok back up........there are parts of this story missing!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/14/08 08:32 AM
How long have you been talking with him?

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Thu 08/14/08 09:22 AM
How would you tell if this guy is good for me? He, won't call me or send me offline messages. I think there is something wrong. I don't know what to do I am upset.......and unhappy. Ok back up........there are parts of this story missing!!! Yea.. Tell us

Nicegirl030 Joined Tue 07/15/08 Posts: 129	Thu 08/14/08 09:26 AM
It been a while since last week I think so

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/14/08 09:30 AM
Start at the beginning.......what is missing in this story???? I need a plot to start with..............

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/14/08 09:32 AM
It been a while since last week I think so No, I mean how long have you been talking to him...like did you just meet him a month ago?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/14/08 09:49 AM
this is like pulling teeth!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/14/08 09:50 AM
this is like pulling teeth!!! No kidding.

G4331 Joined Sat 08/09/08 Posts: 54	Thu 08/14/08 10:15 AM
I would not jump to conclusions. What seems obvious may actually be obtuse. Starting out, this guy may have done his fair share of calling, emailing, etc. There is a new teaching going around that says women are turned off by a man that is always available. Maybe he got snared in that trap and now he's trying to beat the rap. If you really wanna know, ask him, not us.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/14/08 10:29 AM
i'D like to ask the audience!!!

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 08/14/08 10:31 AM
And now we'd like to take a poll. Are you good with pole? Seriously...because some people are just all thumbs with tents.