something's wrong when even not good looking females turn you
down....who agrees??

Well, first I'd want to know why they turned you down. Were you looking
for something that they weren't looking for? How are you going about
presenting yourself to them would also be a question?

Where are you looking

all i asked for is a friend request...nothing less....nothing more.....

where am i looking???

i'm looking at what this website considers "my matches"

maybe she thought you were too good looking and intimidating...
i dont know jus trying to think y anyone turns down friend request.....I
alwayz like to meet new people and start a conversation. Did u try
talkin to her? Or did u jus send her a friend request?

Juju has a good question. When you accept a friend request, those
people show up as your friends and if she don't know you and you never
talked to her before and just sent a friend request - that could have
scared her away.

U say that U r a part time photographer? If U making plenty money on
that part time, U will get plenty friends. So if U do. Say so. And do
not put no sad-look black and white photo looking like a loser to them.
Or rather throw in some coloured, smiling, happy or laughing photos,
looking succesful and confident that U posses efficiency in many areas.
With the little time Women might have on the Net, they don't want to
waste time corresponding with someone they feel they might have 2
support. They might want to see the most they can do in the time they
have. Then if U out of a relationship and now looking as single, or/and
divorced, highlight that. I am not saying U look like a loser. I am
saying that they must not think any way near that. And then there is
this text from the Bible: "He who must have friends, must show himself
friendly." So just email as many people that U like for whatever reason,
and some of them must reply in a friendly way. Some if they don't like
U, will respond in a hostile way. Don't worry about that. U will get
someone more attractive than they to like U.