I have met a lot of people here. Both male and female. And so many
people seem to be nice. Everyone has fun here. If I wasn't with
someone, there would be quite a few guys that I would want to get to
know on a more personal level. Yet most are still single. How come? Is
it mostly just the distance keeping everyone from being a couple? Do
you really not feel connected to anyone of the opposite sex? What is
keeping everyone single?

Good question.. especially when you think you have really hit it off
with someone and you even plan to meet and then they disappear.. why? If
you find the answer Tameka please let me know..

DISTANCE PLAYS A BIG PART.

yes let me know too!!

why seahawk.... is nobody willing to relocate?

Alot of people who seek relationships via the internet are fearful of
true lasting relationships/commitments. Why? Many reasons; Baggage, Fear
of Rejection, Already in a Relationship, etc... the list is never
ending.

I hope the obvious answer helped.

seahawk, but can't distance be worked around if the two people really
click??I mean what happend to love conquers all..

I know that just happens in movies and fairy tales....

But we can be hopefull and atleast try right!!!

HAVENT GOTTEN THAT FAR INTO THAT .MET A FEW THAT IVE CHATTED WITH THAT
SEEMED COOL. RELOCATE ?

Hummm, good question. It seems to me this is a place to just have fun
and connect with an on line community. I gave up on finding a date or
ltr on here several weeks after joining. Seemed like that is not the
focus of most folks on here. I do believe distance plays a big part, to
up root your life, new job, new community to build. I know I’m not
moving for another 5 years due to my kids. So until then, that challenge
exists.
One good thing is that if we all figured it out, there wouldn’t be this
community to spend evenings with.
Anyone have dates lined up for the weekend? Three evenings and my
calendar is open.

IM NOT SAYIN IT CANT HAPPEN.

I HEARYA CAMP.

If you talk for awhile meet on several occasions and you are willing to
give it a try I mean heck life it to short. why not relocate??

Atleast you tried and atleast you lives a little even if it did not work
out.. Maybe something great came from the trying to make it work, like a
new friend, new memories and maybe a great changing life experience..

I just looked at my calendar camp and that is so depressing!!! No
anything!!!!

i agree with you jen...

I meant my ex-husband online playing euchre. He lived in England and I
in Ohio. It took us 3 years, but he did re-locate. I wish I could say
it was bliss, it wasn't. So many things we didn't consider. I advise
caution when considering a long distance relationship.

I went through a lot of basically shallow, short-term relationships
until 1999, when I found "the right one." My ex-in-laws managed to
wreck that for me last year (they're good at that sort of thing), and I
stupidly blundered into 2 internet relationships after that, which were
total disasters.

By the time I found JSH last December, I had given up on the idea of
relationships altogether. I'm not here to meet anybody in person, I'm
just trying to make some new friends and find some new people to talk
to. One thing I've learned the hard way, is that it's better to be
alone than to be with the wrong person.

I have made some friends here, and I admit that, if they lived closer,
there would be a temptation to meet them in person. But the distance
prevents it, and maybe that's for the best.

IF SHE WAS THE "ONE", HELL YA BUT I CANT RELOCATE.IF SHE COULD FINE .

i agree jen... and nothing on my calendar either

i am also on here just for the friendship... but I do find that i am
quite intrigued by a couple of people...

You are right Lex it is better to be alone then be with the wrong
person, but I am one of those hopeless romantics and I believe the right
one is out there for me and for all of us.. Man I have to keep that
hope, I look forward to finding the one that will be my first call of
the day or the last one I say goodnight.. I can't have so much to give
and not very many to give it to or to share it with..

I have met some truelly wonderful people here and I am proud to call
some of them friends dear to my heart, but I still hope for the one I
can crawl into bed with and share my day with good or bad and know they
are there for me when I fall asleep and will be there when I wake.. I do
not know I hope it is true that someone out there will love me for me
and I them in return..

Who knows I may end up theold spinster with 100's of cats but I hope
not!!! LOL