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Sometimes you born a bridge because you know YOU can never cross it again. Other times, you get crossed too many times and need to make sure that doesn't happen again. Agree with that wholeheartedly!!!! Well said lilith!!! 
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Sometimes you born a bridge because you know YOU can never cross it again. Other times, you get crossed too many times and need to make sure that doesn't happen again. Agree with that wholeheartedly!!!! Well said lilith!!!
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how to sum this up without writing a novel to give the back story... well March was a big month for me regarding choices - it was when the third strike for my ex occurred and I realized that just because he said he was "trying" that him sitting there and not talking to me for months was not really any effort on his part I put up with years of being taken for granted or just treated completely like garbage and thinking I did not deserve any better... and after he ended things with me for the third time in 3 months I realized that I needed to stop this pattern or I was never going to like myself so now I am still working on liking myself and knowing that I deserve much better than I was letting myself believe previously… I am doing much better regarding my views of myself than I was six months ago and I have come a long way with regards to my views on relationships and what I want and deserve from one You GO girl .. and it's the reason I just burned one bridge in particular. Yes, Sage, sometimes there really IS a reason to burn a bridge. So they can never cross it to YOU again.. 
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how to sum this up without writing a novel to give the back story... well March was a big month for me regarding choices - it was when the third strike for my ex occurred and I realized that just because he said he was "trying" that him sitting there and not talking to me for months was not really any effort on his part I put up with years of being taken for granted or just treated completely like garbage and thinking I did not deserve any better... and after he ended things with me for the third time in 3 months I realized that I needed to stop this pattern or I was never going to like myself so now I am still working on liking myself and knowing that I deserve much better than I was letting myself believe previously… I am doing much better regarding my views of myself than I was six months ago and I have come a long way with regards to my views on relationships and what I want and deserve from one You GO girl .. and it's the reason I just burned one bridge in particular. Yes, Sage, sometimes there really IS a reason to burn a bridge. So they can never cross it to YOU again..
Burn it!  
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Yes, Sage, sometimes there really IS a reason to burn a bridge. So they can never cross it to YOU again..
I completely agree with that statement |
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Let Go For You
Bridges Be Gone For You To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself. To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies. To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it. To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. |
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Sometimes you born a bridge because you know YOU can never cross it again. Other times, you get crossed too many times and need to make sure that doesn't happen again. Agree with that wholeheartedly!!!! Well said lilith!!!
Sometimes you do indeed burn one YOU feel can not be crossed... I have done that. Never realizing that someone else may have needed that bridge... I burned it because I did not... And denied that bridge to another. |
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This is true....the more I read of your stuff...the more i like this one....good man....
Sometimes you born a bridge because you know YOU can never cross it again. Other times, you get crossed too many times and need to make sure that doesn't happen again. Agree with that wholeheartedly!!!! Well said lilith!!!
Sometimes you do indeed burn one YOU feel can not be crossed... I have done that. Never realizing that someone else may have needed that bridge... I burned it because I did not... And denied that bridge to another. |
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Sometimes you born a bridge because you know YOU can never cross it again. Other times, you get crossed too many times and need to make sure that doesn't happen again. Agree with that wholeheartedly!!!! Well said lilith!!!
Sometimes you do indeed burn one YOU feel can not be crossed... I have done that. Never realizing that someone else may have needed that bridge... I burned it because I did not... And denied that bridge to another. Sometimes it's all about survival. If the person crossing is having a negative impact on your soul ... BURN BABY BURN!!! 
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Let Go For You Bridges Be Gone For You To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself. To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies. To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it. To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. Don't ever regret something that used to make you smile 
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