Please just tell me... cause I just don't get it...


You tell your best friend that you love them... and they disappear... and your BFF has no clue what they want.. yet he can show affection but don't want anything more.

Or there are the guys that say all they want is a hot @ss. If I was anorexic I would look like a freakin' barbie, but I don't. Plus I wouldn't want all the negative attention that comes with being 'skinny'

And there are the descent guys... the ones that you think have potential. And you have nice wonderful amazing conversations with them and then after a while (a few days.. several email converastions) they disappear too!



I have heard that if you can date a guy for a year without having sex with him, you are almost guaranteed to be married within 2 years.

Or there is the taxi cab theory... (modified into my words) Guys going around screwing and trying to get into every and anything's pants. Until one day they turn on the for hire light and pick up the first gal that comes along.. and that is who they marry or get serious about.



I just don't get it... PLEASE! Guys that are actually serious about have a relationship... what is the deal.. please explain this to me.

o0o0o the good ole' run around... Yea I know what you're talking about and it f*cking sucks!!

Oh this isn't pertaining to just one person... but many from different points of time. So I guess its just a venting moment... but still I just don't get... I really really don't!

sounds like you been hitting the jackpot on pig men

We suck

In the past ... yes.

Now... nope just guys that don't know what they want.

Hey E, you still with 'you-know-who'?

Thank you, Chevy! That's exactly what I needed!

I honestly believe that no man knows what he wants and if he does and he finds it he gets scared and runs away....

You just might be right!

yup, done that same thing two times now ....

OH what am I saying! You have to be with some new hot young thing by now!

But why? Why ruin it? Why not let it grow and see what happens?

Run for the hills...
Run for your life...

I think the reason a lot of men run is because they think that once they are committed the woman will try to change who they are. Not that all women do that. But thats just the way i see it.

because , i have been hurt really bad in the past ! and its better to stay lonely ....than to get hurt all over again !

That's a good point!

But for example, you have been friends, best friends and spent a LOT of time getting to know that person... why run then? why blow someone off?

I just don't get it. You know that person's personality enough to know if they are a supporter or a changer.

I am sorry darlin' But if you didn't experience that pain, how would you know true pleasure?

You are 100% correct. I dont know what the problem is. Although when you are friends and you move to the next step, things do change.

The only thing I can think of is that they have seen to many tv shows or have friends that are controlled by there wives.

i dont really know ????
but some day i will get my own head out of my ass !
and then maybe i will try again ?????