Have you ever fallen in love with someone before finding out that they were abusive?

How did you handle it when you found out?

yes ....i ended up fighting back....then we divorced...LOL

I shot the *****

yes, love is blind and dumb !
evry one tryed telling me she was no good for me but i wouldnt listen
and now i wished i did !

I have never done that, but if I did, then I agree fight back, then good bye idiot.

well my ex husband wasent abusive. he was just a cheater and cronic lyer.

yep.. my family and friends told me the same thing about my ex hubby before we got married and even after and of course i didnt listen.. it took me about 2yrs to see it. and we wernt even together for our first annerversay..

my daughter was with her kids dad on and off for 10yrs before they got married. and yea he was abusive he actually hit her for he accused her on flirting with his cousin and all she was doing was talking to him.. she had a big bruse on her face. and she even knew all the signs of abuse for she took a course on it in school.. they got married had another baby. and things went down from there again. he was working but he never did anything with the kids really. i told her i had a feeling that he was going to get in trouble again before his probation was up. and guess what he did. 7days before he was to get off probation he got introuble with his brother and he in jail for a total of 6yrs. and yea my daughter has filed for divorce