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Topic: Friendship
Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:17 AM

How do you think I am able to be having the coversation with you this morning....drawing from this totally and another one that just happen yesterday.....it sucks...and your right if my heart hurts this much I can't even imagine when more feelings are involved..






You don't get over it as much as learn from it...if you truely love someone...I don't think you ever get over it thoughfrown frown frown



Oh have I learned from it. But this is what scares me so much from what I have learned. Anyone who truly knows the feral I am a great friend and I would literally die or do anything for my friends. It makes an otherwise very open loving woman want to not ever go through that kind of hurt again. So I can either withdrawl and never let anyone in. (WHICH I COULD NEVER) So I am stuck with the hurt of knowing that this supposed friendship was a big fat lie. I have never in my life on line or in real life ever been treated like this. I honestly for the first time in my life can't deal or handle.



Sh*t Debbie. Welcome to the world of internet dating. You are nursing a hurt just with friendship. Imagine that on a larger scale of romantic love as well.brokenheart We deal with both at same time.

Ya .. welcome to OUR world dearest married friend of mine drinker flowerforyou




Like I said I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, let alone my best friend :wink: No wonder so many people give up on internet dating. Or dating in general. It's a tough world when you open your heart to a friend, lover or both in one.

ohwell

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Sat 01/17/09 11:37 AM
True friends are for ever you can't have too many true friends in ya life. I would talk it out with the person then if they don't want to then you should just try not to worry an just move on they will come to you when they are ready too..I've had friends like that before too..


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GM4N's photo
Sat 01/17/09 11:42 AM
Time!............Tells all lies and Heals all wounds!




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monkdog8888's photo
Sat 01/17/09 11:51 AM
here's an idea. Maybe your frirnd is not telling you something and is turning inside. Cutting off relationships. maybe he has hit a real abd patch and is not telling anyone about it. Pry on him a litle bit and see what's going on.
Then maybe he is just a prue asshole, which is sad it took you two years to find that out.
If he is your friend, try and find out whats going on before you ditch him.Now may be when he needs you most.

feralcatlady's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:59 PM


How do you think I am able to be having the coversation with you this morning....drawing from this totally and another one that just happen yesterday.....it sucks...and your right if my heart hurts this much I can't even imagine when more feelings are involved..






You don't get over it as much as learn from it...if you truely love someone...I don't think you ever get over it thoughfrown frown frown



Oh have I learned from it. But this is what scares me so much from what I have learned. Anyone who truly knows the feral I am a great friend and I would literally die or do anything for my friends. It makes an otherwise very open loving woman want to not ever go through that kind of hurt again. So I can either withdrawl and never let anyone in. (WHICH I COULD NEVER) So I am stuck with the hurt of knowing that this supposed friendship was a big fat lie. I have never in my life on line or in real life ever been treated like this. I honestly for the first time in my life can't deal or handle.



Sh*t Debbie. Welcome to the world of internet dating. You are nursing a hurt just with friendship. Imagine that on a larger scale of romantic love as well.brokenheart We deal with both at same time.

Ya .. welcome to OUR world dearest married friend of mine drinker flowerforyou




Like I said I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, let alone my best friend :wink: No wonder so many people give up on internet dating. Or dating in general. It's a tough world when you open your heart to a friend, lover or both in one.

ohwell




I know darling and agree 100%

feralcatlady's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:00 PM

Time!............Tells all lies and Heals all wounds!




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((((((((GMAN))))))) thanks for input doll....not sure the tells all lies part......but time will hopefully heal my heart.

feralcatlady's photo
Sun 01/18/09 09:36 AM
thanks guys


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