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Topic: so i'm shallow...
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Sun 01/18/09 07:42 PM

...and to a point we all are. (don't try and deny it, or you're lying) ... i want my mate to be attractive. and i'm not saying attractive to everyone else in the world, i mean to ME. i want to be physically attracted to him... and if i'm not, i don't go for them.

so i'm just curious... when someone messages you and you are far from attracted to them ... do you ignore the message or tell them you're not interested for "whatever" reason? OR do you keep talking to them, not letting them know they are wasting their time?


It depends on their message. If I read their profile and they sound pretty cool and have some interesting hobbies, I will reply. If it is a profile that comes across as being desperate for a relationship, I ignore.


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Sun 01/18/09 07:47 PM
yeah the shakedown is a real big turn off for me! I hate the list of what i cant be to introduce myself, i think "warning phsycho here stay clear"! i really cant get along with pety people it drives me nuts!

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Sun 01/18/09 08:40 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wb-QtCWD6E0&feature=related

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Sun 01/18/09 08:41 PM
ill talk dont mean you have to date them at all or meet ive been doing this a week and already got a date out of it though. but i am a lil judgeing right now because i wont lie im 21 not looking for anything more then a lay right now but if more happens then cool. but looks mean alot but i cant be with a good looking *****

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Sun 01/18/09 08:44 PM


...and to a point we all are. (don't try and deny it, or you're lying) ... i want my mate to be attractive. and i'm not saying attractive to everyone else in the world, i mean to ME. i want to be physically attracted to him... and if i'm not, i don't go for them.

so i'm just curious... when someone messages you and you are far from attracted to them ... do you ignore the message or tell them you're not interested for "whatever" reason? OR do you keep talking to them, not letting them know they are wasting their time?
flowerforyou I answer everyone that emails meflowerforyou I can always be friends with themflowerforyou

Yep, I agree with Mirror on this one.

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Sun 01/18/09 08:48 PM
Edited by Drago01 on Sun 01/18/09 08:51 PM
I have a nice woman emailing me right now and Im friendly enough right back but I will never ever date or get serious about a smoker and that she is. I havent said anything about it, but then we dont live close, so friends it is for now.

Mchstiger, Why should you feel shallow by feeling and reacting to what comes natural?

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