Topic: guys, shall women start conversation?
rlynne's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:30 PM
awww, thats too sad...who cares who starts as long as the going is good?


freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:30 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Thu 01/22/09 12:30 PM

Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.



Another "Bingo !" smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:31 PM


I don't wanna date a sissy that isn't man enough to at least say hi if he wants to laugh


If we did that, we'd been saying hi to about 150 women a day smokin


So, you never even speak to women unless they speak to you first?

Seakolony's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:32 PM

Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.


thats bcs you dont use that great sarcastic sense of humor to save from that dumb a$$ guy that just tried to get get her to dance!! :wink:

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Thu 01/22/09 12:35 PM

So, you never even speak to women unless they speak to you first?


I can't speak for anybody else, but that's how I handle it, yes.



Jill298's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:35 PM
See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.

ca803's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:36 PM
I guess I like most people feel like what if I make a fool of myself? I will walk up with friends and talk though

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:36 PM



I don't wanna date a sissy that isn't man enough to at least say hi if he wants to laugh


If we did that, we'd been saying hi to about 150 women a day smokin


So, you never even speak to women unless they speak to you first?


No, I'll make small talk with anyone, and be the one to start it off, but if im lookin for a GF, I tend to wait for a lady to show she interested before I get too enthusiastic.

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:40 PM

See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.


Get back to us in 20 years, after a while, it gets real old. Were not rich enough, tall enough, compassionate enough, smart enough, or good looking enough, so were just letting you decide what you want smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:41 PM
The way I see it, especially on a site like this, if you want to talk to someone just do it. I've emailed people here for various reasons. Some turn into interesting conversations, some I never hear from. If someone doesn't reply, who cares.

In person, if you see someone that you want to talk to, go for it. If they don't want to talk to you or turn you down, is it really a big deal? Not like you're going to be hanging out with them afterward anyway.

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Thu 01/22/09 12:41 PM


See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.


Get back to us in 20 years, after a while, it gets real old. Were not rich enough, tall enough, compassionate enough, smart enough, or good looking enough, so were just letting you decide what you want smokin


That just sounds whiny.

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:42 PM


Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.


thats bcs you dont use that great sarcastic sense of humor to save from that dumb a$$ guy that just tried to get get her to dance!! :wink:


Ummm... I dont drink, and I sure dont waste my time in bars, so that would be hard for me to do anyway smokin

Jill298's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:44 PM


See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.


Get back to us in 20 years, after a while, it gets real old. Were not rich enough, tall enough, compassionate enough, smart enough, or good looking enough, so were just letting you decide what you want smokin
No. I spent to much time sittin in the back row waiting for others to come talk to me. Letting people pass me by when I really wanted to talk to them but waited for them to make a move. If we're both waiting for the other to make the 1st move, it never gets done. I wait no more.

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:45 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Thu 01/22/09 12:50 PM

I guess I like most people feel like what if I make a fool of myself? I will walk up with friends and talk though


If I walk up to someone, im usually gunna ask a question, like where da hell am I. I don't just walk up to people and start conversations out of the blue, and most that do it to me, are weirdo's smokin

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:46 PM


See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.


Get back to us in 20 years, after a while, it gets real old. Were not rich enough, tall enough, compassionate enough, smart enough, or good looking enough, so were just letting you decide what you want smokin


too young for most of ya'll anyway
those my age, well, i would require them, to think too much

guys can be choosy too, just sayin'


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Thu 01/22/09 12:47 PM



Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.


thats bcs you dont use that great sarcastic sense of humor to save from that dumb a$$ guy that just tried to get get her to dance!! :wink:


Ummm... I dont drink, and I sure dont waste my time in bars, so that would be hard for me to do anyway smokin


Same here. I haven't touched alcohol since I was 22, and never will again. If she's in a bar, it's not going to work regardless.



freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:48 PM



See that's the difference. I really don't care if I get rejected by someone I don't even know. I won't see him again anyway. So at least I tried.


Get back to us in 20 years, after a while, it gets real old. Were not rich enough, tall enough, compassionate enough, smart enough, or good looking enough, so were just letting you decide what you want smokin


That just sounds whiny.


Your certainly entitled to your opinion smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:48 PM

guys can be choosy too, just sayin'


Absolutely -- that's the only thing that's kept me from making some truly horrible mistakes....

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:49 PM


guys can be choosy too, just sayin'


Absolutely -- that's the only thing that's kept me from making some truly horrible mistakes....


thats the point in being choosy right?

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Thu 01/22/09 12:52 PM

thats the point in being choosy right?


Right, because in the past, I had a tendency not to be choosy enough at all -- and I wound up doing idiotic things like getting married.