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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation.
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. Nope. Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Best of luck to you |
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Edited by
DTHRomeo
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Thu 01/29/09 10:42 PM
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If it doesn't feel natural
Then it's not what you both want JMO Good luck to you |
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. I would be concerned about you not getting any real affection in return. Are you okay with that? |
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. I would be concerned about you not getting any real affection in return. Are you okay with that? I am to a certain degree. This is a girl with serious self esteem issues (real used to the bad boys that beat her) Just seeing if she will come out of this funk. |
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. Not to be overall negative... but you said "how long do i gotta keep this up lol". This implies that you are not being real to yourself. Anytime you have to act "fake" for a person to like/love you, it is doomed to fail. You can only keep a mask on for so long. Best of luck, you are going to need it. |
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oh I expected that, and I know what I am getting into. I am just giving it a second go, to be absolutely sure whether this is doomed to failure or not.
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if u aren't getting affection now, do u think it's going to increase over time??
good luck to you |
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point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. Yes. I usually ended up with more of the same. nuff said. |
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WOW.....you men gossip more than women!!!
 
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WOW.....you men gossip more than women!!! Don't act so jealous! |
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I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol You shouldnt have to wonder how to keep anything up...being in a relationship is loving/liking one another not to put up this charade. You need to ask yourself some questions about what you really want before you end up hurting this girl. You said she has self esteem problems, well when you break her heart it might be over with for her. Think deeply my friend, you kind of sound like an ass in my opinion. |
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. I would be concerned about you not getting any real affection in return. Are you okay with that? I am to a certain degree. This is a girl with serious self esteem issues (real used to the bad boys that beat her) Just seeing if she will come out of this funk. Did you get affection returned the first time you were with her? |
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WOW.....you men gossip more than women!!! Don't act so jealous! 
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dont take advice..follow your heart..talk to her not us
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I do wonder why you're doing a "method" instead of just being yourself. You are selling her someone different then who you are. And why "don't be too nice"?
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he missed the sex.......
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he winx.......are you still going out with that guy who wont bring in your groceries???
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Edited by
74Drew
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Thu 01/29/09 11:29 PM
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Ok, I am now back together with my ex. It is going "ok" Not perfect, but better than expected. I am doing the whole "Don't be to nice method" and it seems so far to be working. I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol It's cool and all that she seems fairly happy with the current situation, but I am not getting any real affection in return as of yet. I just hope it gets back to like it was in the beginning at some point. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. i'd tell her that things aren't going as well as i'd hoped and that i think we should go our separate ways. she's not providing what you want, time to move on. ex's should remain ex's |
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he winx.......are you still going out with that guy who wont bring in your groceries??? Email coming. |
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