Topic: starting over again at 38
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Sun 02/01/09 08:42 PM
hi i just wanted to know if my boyfriend lives in the north and i live in the south and we have a 4 year old together. he wants to go to school for 4yrs. up there and we stay down here and he pays no support because he says he can't he has to pay for school. he will see us 1 month in the summer and try to make the holidays if he can. do you think that he will ever come home to us.

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Sun 02/01/09 08:45 PM

hi i just wanted to know if my boyfriend lives in the north and i live in the south and we have a 4 year old together. he wants to go to school for 4yrs. up there and we stay down here and he pays no support because he says he can't he has to pay for school. he will see us 1 month in the summer and try to make the holidays if he can. do you think that he will ever come home to us.
wow....tough question. not knowing either of you I plead the 5th.

Travel72's photo
Sun 02/01/09 08:45 PM
Doubt it. If he can't make the time to visit his own child then I would say it's time to move on. He obviously doesn't want the responsibilities that go with being a parent.

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Sun 02/01/09 08:50 PM
noway

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Sun 02/01/09 08:53 PM
i wouldn't say it is obvious...its a pretty hard decision to go back to college and get retrained at that age

there isn't a college in the area that he could attend

it seems unreasonable to move so far away to go to college he should try to go to a college closer...unless it is a top 20 university in the field he plans on studying

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Sun 02/01/09 08:58 PM
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