or im not cut out for some of this dating and relationship nonsense. the woman i am seeing is sick today she told me she was angry because i didn't offer to bring or do anything for her. i did apologize because I realize I may have been a bit insensitive but she has a cold. She freaked out over a cold and I don't understand how she wouldn't get mad that I had her waiting outside once in the cold for 20 min but got mad that I didn't ask her if she needed anything.... I'm sure I sound like a dirt bag but if you have a cold or flu what can someone do for you? Did she want me to offer just for the sake of offering when there is nothing ( except maybe the chicken soup deal) I can do.