Topic: How soon is too soon?
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Mon 02/09/09 10:59 PM
How soon is too soon to move on from a serious relationship? Does dating again help ease the pain?

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Mon 02/09/09 11:04 PM
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Mon 02/09/09 11:07 PM

How soon is too soon to move on from a serious relationship? Does dating again help ease the pain?


If you're getting their names mixed up, it's too soon. Healing from a relationship is best done out of a relationship. Less baggage, more fulfilling.

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Mon 02/09/09 11:18 PM
only oneself can make that decision, you'll know when you're ready

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Mon 02/09/09 11:23 PM
Yeah. Get back into the pool when you're ready to.

Example- I didn't start getting back into the dating scene for about four years after my last serious relationship went kaput. It jolted me so bad that I pretty much didn't wanna even think about hookin' up again.

And now here I am... on some stinkin' online dating site... still battin' a full-on zero... laugh

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Mon 02/09/09 11:24 PM
I don't think dating is a good idea if you are suffering hun. Time and good friends who will listen, advise and make you laugh will help with the pain (i think you'l find plenty on here!). A hearty helping of Whitney houston's 'step by step' works a treat too if you sing along flowers

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Mon 02/09/09 11:25 PM
If you have to ask yourself that question then its to soon, asking yourself that means you still haven't dealt with some inner issues. You will know when its time, there will be no question in your mind when its time! Hope you find what you are looking for and good luck

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Mon 02/09/09 11:34 PM

How soon is too soon to move on from a serious relationship?


When you're done healing.flowerforyou

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Mon 02/09/09 11:34 PM

If you have to ask yourself that question then its to soon, asking yourself that means you still haven't dealt with some inner issues. You will know when its time, there will be no question in your mind when its time! Hope you find what you are looking for and good luck


Good point.

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Mon 02/09/09 11:36 PM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Mon 02/09/09 11:37 PM

How soon is too soon to move on from a serious relationship? Does dating again help ease the pain?
Its different for everyone. I have friends who go from guy to guy. Im not like that. I like to learn from past mistakes and maybe Im a bit gun shy....

I dont know if dating helps ease the pain as I have been on a non dating hiatus for almost 3 years.....

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Mon 02/09/09 11:40 PM


If you have to ask yourself that question then its to soon, asking yourself that means you still haven't dealt with some inner issues. You will know when its time, there will be no question in your mind when its time! Hope you find what you are looking for and good luck


Good point.

Thank you, I try to help if I can.

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Mon 02/09/09 11:44 PM



If you have to ask yourself that question then its to soon, asking yourself that means you still haven't dealt with some inner issues. You will know when its time, there will be no question in your mind when its time! Hope you find what you are looking for and good luck


Good point.

Thank you, I try to help if I can.


You're welcome.flowerforyou

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Mon 02/09/09 11:50 PM
I PERSONALLY THINK THAT U SHOULD THINK ABOUT THE NEXT PERSON U MIGHT DATE AND WETHER OR NOT U MIGHT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BY WISHING OR THINKING OF THE LAST RELATIONSHIP

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Tue 02/10/09 07:55 AM
thanks everyone. I just think it sucks that he's obviously over everything and has moved on, yet, he's still always on my mind and I find myself sulking alone while he's out enjoying his new life.

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Tue 02/10/09 07:58 AM
Make sure you give yourself enough time to get over the ex, it could ruin the next relationship.

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Tue 02/10/09 08:04 AM
Don't do it it's a plot against you!!!!!!!!!!!laugh


whenever you feel your ready to turn it up a notch flowerforyou