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 Will you marry me and have my babies?  LOL How are you doing?? HMM Should I fix you up with my friend? The wedding is already planned, so you just have to show up!!  I'm doing well, you? So what are we going to do with the groom? Oh yeah, I should probably get my vasectomy reversed.  I actually went on a FIRST date a few years back when the lady brought up whether or not I wanted kids. I told her that I had closed up shop so ummm, no... She then said, "if you really want to be with someone badly enough you can get that reversed...." Hey!! I have some really sharp sewing scissors and a brand new sewing machine!...I can fix ya right up!! |
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Will you marry me and have my babies? LOL How are you doing?? HMM Should I fix you up with my friend? The wedding is already planned, so you just have to show up!! I'm doing well, you? So what are we going to do with the groom? Oh yeah, I should probably get my vasectomy reversed. I actually went on a FIRST date a few years back when the lady brought up whether or not I wanted kids. I told her that I had closed up shop so ummm, no... She then said, "if you really want to be with someone badly enough you can get that reversed...." I don't think I would have walked out on your first date...I think I would have ran!! I think IF I went out on a first date and they mentioned having kids with me...I honestly think I would walk out the door. To me that is showing me they want to jump right into a relationship and thats a scary thought to me!! I am actually doing very well. My son is getting engaged tomorrow, so I finally get the daughter I never had   Congrats!!
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Will you marry me and have my babies? LOL How are you doing?? HMM Should I fix you up with my friend? The wedding is already planned, so you just have to show up!! I'm doing well, you? So what are we going to do with the groom? Oh yeah, I should probably get my vasectomy reversed. I actually went on a FIRST date a few years back when the lady brought up whether or not I wanted kids. I told her that I had closed up shop so ummm, no... She then said, "if you really want to be with someone badly enough you can get that reversed...." Hey!! I have some really sharp sewing scissors and a brand new sewing machine!...I can fix ya right up!! 
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lol...scaredy cat..
Most of the time my hands only shake a little. 
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When my wife passed away from a serious illness March 14, 2007, she had a blackout seizure and accidentally overdosed on her medications while I was at work. I have been on 2 dates since then and it seems like the women I have picked could not live up to my expectations. What I expect is for a lady to accept the fact that my son comes first in my life. He is 4 yrs old. The first one I really wasn't ready for and she couldn't understand, oh well. The second, she tried to get me to put her first and put my son on the back burner. That wasn't going to work, I told that and she started yelling at my son every time he did something wrong no matter what it was. I put my foot down on that and broke it off with her. I don't know what it is with women. Are my expectations to high? What my expectations are: 1. Accept the fact that my son comes first or if she has children, then the children come first, my son included. 2. A lady who is responsible: knows that bills, food and childrens needs come first before going out or likes to stay at home to have dinner and cuddle on the couch to watch a movie. 3. A lady who likes to talk about problems instead of arguing over nonsense and get into a yelling match. I have alot more, but will post them in a different topic. I'm a bit confused with your statements here. You say you've been on 2 dates. Yet you already have them meeting your son ?????????? DUDE. I have 5 kids and I've met dozens of guys for a dinner/drinks situation for a first meet. I wouldn't think of bringing them home to meet my kids even after a few dates. And that brings me to the next concern. You want dinner and a movie at home. Did you take them anywhere for a first meet? Maybe what you need to do is center on your son for now, and get your financial status in order so you can actually afford to take a woman out. Just sayin ............... |
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Kids will always be number 1 no matter what. But you need to find a healthy balance. To put every ounce of your energy into only your kids and not yourself is unbalanced.
I went on 2 dates with a guy who was all "My kids are first bla blablaaaah" I thought....great!!! I have a child too but Im also human and need grown up contact as well. |
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lol...scaredy cat.. Most of the time my hands only shake a little. What about the rest of the time? |
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ummm...well they shake a lot more...lol
j/k 
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Two dates?
It still way too early yet in your new single life. Still a lot of road to cover. Kids can be an issue in common, or not. Take some time and see what the world has to offer. Be gentle with yourself and the women you date, its not easy dating at any age. Listen to some of the women here, they have insights that can help you be a better "date". Some of the guys too. |
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I don't think he is expecting to much. He lets them know up front about his child. And his intentions there. The fact that he is up front about how he has his future planned out? What is it that women want then if not this? He has his priorities in line I think. I am sure there are a lot of women who want a relationship , yet they want to "party" also. . Even if its going out more often then he can do . Heck it doesn't stop there even women in their later years want that. I see it all the time. so Darin stick to your guns, the right one may be out there.. be patient.
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