Topic: fallin for a jsh friend
mickalainell's photo
Tue 05/01/07 01:23 AM
that lives 2000 miles away. done the whole ldr thing before but never
out of state. kinda chicken to just lay it all out there i'm a romantic
realist. think miranda on sex and the city. i'm thinking use my
airline miles, take a trip, hang out, nothin serious, see if there's a
connection and if not keep it the way it is. geesh. i just answered my
own freakin question. i'm tellin you butterflies make me retarded.
laugh happy :tongue:

Lena_Marie's photo
Tue 05/01/07 04:14 AM
yay for u =) i think im falling for a friend 2 and we only met a week
ago

oldsage's photo
Tue 05/01/07 04:24 AM
Go slow ladies, I'd talk a lot before doing any trips. Initial feelings
are such a rush, I learned to chat on puter/phone for at least 60-90
days. Ask a lot of personal questions, pics exchanged, talk about their
past; dig deep & take notes. To many out there that go to fast. Stay
safe & listen to those little voices deep inside you. Big thing, TALK
to friends HERE about things, get other's input.

An old man's opinion

brokenheart74's photo
Tue 05/01/07 04:43 AM
Take your time and use your head not your heart.

tantalizingtulip's photo
Tue 05/01/07 05:35 AM
ditto

no photo
Tue 05/01/07 05:38 AM
well said sageflowerforyou bigsmile

mickalainell's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:51 AM
thanks. we've been friends since nov of last year so i feel you old
sage on the waiting until you actually start to know the person. i'm
feeling like 6 months is too soon. lena these things seems to move much
faster online than off for some strange reason but i totally understand.
broken heart, silly sage & tantalizing tulip thanks a million. all of
you guys rock!

davinci1952's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:57 AM
...ldr...been there...huge bummer...grumble grumble

LAMom's photo
Tue 05/01/07 12:17 PM
Ohhhhhhhh Sage said it the best,, GO Slow and communication is the
key,,,