Can someone tell me why it hurts soo much when u lose a friend that was
always there for you.never judged u loved u for you n only you and that
you could have been with her.well this friend is a girl that i really
loved so much she never yelled at me or faught with me over bull****
like my other girlfriends did and i could always tell her anything that
was bothering me.But i blame myself for this because she was driving her
friends home from drinkin n this guy asked her to his place n she said
No because she wanted to be with me,so wat does this guy do he gets
pissed off n hits her in the back of the head with a crowbar n she
dies..all becuse she wanted to be with me.I havnt slept a wink ever
since she died n i always it should have been me not her. I just dunno
how to let go of her dying like this..

what should let go..or stop blaming myself n move on?

thanks will..

Wow that is so sad. How long has it been hun? You probbley should get
some grief counseling. It's usually free through some hospitals or
Hospice organization...
You will be in my thoughts and prayers...
It is hard to lose some one you love-adventually we do get through it...

the best you can do is keep your memories of the good times and leave
all the negitive out. every thing happens for a reason
so many times the reasons get lost by what was negitive about
what happened, if you stay on the postive side of life and death
then this awful death can have its peace and you can accept that there
is nothing you did to cause this to happen, perhaps now she is trying to
be your gauardian angel but until you let her memory be what it was
meant to be for you then she cannot
be there

wow!! im am so so so sorry to hear that...i agree some grief conseling
might help ya out.
But hey, im always here if u need someone to talk too!!

Damn bro, that f*ckin sucks. Honestly, you'll probably never get fully
"over" it, but remember to live life for her. Do good things in her
memory, and her honor. That's the best way to cope.

OMG..So very sad..You have my condolensces

You should always remember that your friend did not give in to this
guy that was wanting her to do what she did not want to do. Even though
what happened was such a tragedy she is now resting in the arms of our
Lord and she is not in any pain whatsoever. You should NEVER blame
yourself for this...the Devil is the father of lies and he will try to
convince you that this was your fault...please seek (by seeking I mean
to pray to Him and to call out to Him...He will hear you) God and not
only will He show you this was not your fault but He will also ease your
sorrow.