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Topic: Men never win
miko1960's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:31 AM
Why can we never win an argument with a woman,maybe because us men would rather diffuse the situation before something is said that can't be taken back,maybe we are trying to be the peacemakers in a relationship.

Woman however just can't seem to let go when arguing with a man,I just can't see anything constructive in arguing having a serious discussion however is another matter,when voices become raised and anger crops into the picture this would be a good time for both parties to back away from one another.

At times when I have been in arguments with girlfriends,they will follow me out the door and would not let me leave by standing in front of my cars door or even taking my car keys away from me,one even jumped on my back,because I was trying to leave in the middle of a discussion we were having where she was becoming angry.

A lot of times arguments start over something about the relationship,I realize a woman can become frustrated when discussing these matters with us,since we don't like to talk about these things,we feel if it ain't broke why try to fix it.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:33 AM
Don't bother trying

We are just that good!!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:34 AM

Why can we never win an argument with a woman,maybe because us men would rather diffuse the situation before something is said that can't be taken back,maybe we are trying to be the peacemakers in a relationship.

Woman however just can't seem to let go when arguing with a man,I just can't see anything constructive in arguing having a serious discussion however is another matter,when voices become raised and anger crops into the picture this would be a good time for both parties to back away from one another.

At times when I have been in arguments with girlfriends,they will follow me out the door and would not let me leave by standing in front of my cars door or even taking my car keys away from me,one even jumped on my back,because I was trying to leave in the middle of a discussion we were having where she was becoming angry.

A lot of times arguments start over something about the relationship,I realize a woman can become frustrated when discussing these matters with us,since we don't like to talk about these things,we feel if it ain't broke why try to fix it.
:thumbsup:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:35 AM
drinker drinker drinker drinker

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:36 AM
damned if you are right and damned if you are wrong in all cases you get on the head.

miko1960's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:36 AM
Ya just can't let things gotears tears tears tears

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Mon 06/29/09 10:41 AM
Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!bigsmile drinker

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:42 AM
Don't argue? I find it rather pointless myself, as soon as a discussion becomes an argument both have lost the ability to maintain common ground...thus, useless.

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:44 AM

Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!bigsmile drinker



Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:44 AM

Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!bigsmile drinker
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Ain't that the truth
Most women have no idea how powerful they truly are!!:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:46 AM
Ha!!!!! You just don't yell as loud as i do. mad Take control of the situationmad

darkowl1's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:46 AM
Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 06/29/09 10:53 AM
i never argue anymore, with anyone. i just say, well, i could be wrong, but lets look at the facts together, and decide what really works, because i respect you enough to value your high opinion with me.

when you argue, you lose face and possibly a well needed earned friend. you will get utmost respect and maybe even learn that you both were wrong or right, but you do this together......nobody and i mean nobody wins an arguement, whether they win or lose, they both lose!

anymosity then comes out when arguements start and it's generally the beginning of the end of things that constantly need to be repaired through-out your time together.....good luck!

if you want more info, e-mail me on how this is done, cheers!

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Mon 06/29/09 10:46 AM

Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!bigsmile drinker


Where's my bolt cutters? laugh

miko1960's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:46 AM
YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.mad mad mad

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Mon 06/29/09 10:48 AM

Because we hold the key to the p*ssy!!!bigsmile drinker


laugh

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Mon 06/29/09 10:48 AM

YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.mad mad mad


And look where it got Ya.

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Mon 06/29/09 10:49 AM


YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.mad mad mad


And look where it got Ya.
No poooooooooooosy!!!noway slaphead rofl

miko1960's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:52 AM
NO ANYTHING.sad sad

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Mon 06/29/09 10:54 AM



YEAH BUT I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.mad mad mad


And look where it got Ya.
No poooooooooooosy!!!noway slaphead rofl



And didn't eve argue with anyone about it either.frustrated

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:55 AM

NO ANYTHING.sad sad


Well, at least you were right...correct? See the fundamental issue with arguments? There always has to be someone wrong...again, waste of time...

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